>>100216I don't know why you would reply to me if you were convinced I was a man. You could just report me or ignore me.
But I am technically ESL so maybe you are right huh? But explain to me, others are giving her advice, telling her to leave or try talk to him and such. So I'm not the only one interpreting it that way. So they must be morons too, I guess.
Anyway my take is that people with problems like that need help. I don't think it's normal even for men, he probably needs therapy and maybe medication. She says he's depressed and insecure, he clearly has stress issues and this is what he knows how to cope with it. I think men aren't taught how to cope with anxiety healthily, and they're afraid to ask for help, so they develop worse responses. But there's a chance it can be helped before things get too bad. It isn't his girlfriend's responsibility and she clearly doesn't want to deal with it. It's not your responsibility either. But blaming it on "men are stupid and bad" or something like that is just making light of some real psychiatric problems people face, things that could likely be helped.
Anecdotally, my sister would also shout and throw things, and I would self harm. I used to look down on her but I understand now we had the same problem, we never were taught how to cope with stress and anger. We were both unhealthy and violent, just one was inward and one was outward. When I hear about people like that, I think they must be in some distress, and maybe they have nobody to help them through it. I think a lot of people never have. I used to be a neurotic piece of shit too, maybe I still am a little. But I learned to realize it and improve, because of people giving me a chance and teaching me even after I hurt them and didn't deserve kindness. And I'm incredibly grateful now, it makes me believe not everyone is bad even if I often really want to think so. And I think there are many other people, men included, that can be helped too. But not someone who is just looking for an excuse to hate, they don't want help or to help others. And that's why I don't like posts with that attitude. And maybe complaining about them makes me a hypocrite, I will take that.
If you had enough bad experiences that you don't want to risk it anymore, I'm really sorry. You can feel that way, but if you want to act like other women must be the same or they're stupid men, I think you're being ridiculous. Now you can still disagree with me, but I hope you don't just insult me again, that would be really lame. And prove myself to you, what do you even mean, everything we say is completely unsubstantiated and you would likely hate me no matter what I said. You will probably hate this too but I still want to say it because I believe in it. But I'm not going along with this "kiss my ass or else you're a stupid moid and I hate you grrrr >:(" lmao
I guess I may get banned anyway though. So I might as well also say that I somewhat suspect this is another fake falseflag thread to begin with. But I don't know that.
