/feels/ - Advice & Venting

assuming this is not bait why would you ever meet up with someone on 4chan let alone date them

>>101555
i enjoy that chan communities skew towards decentralization. you find individuals whose views tend to align with your own better.

>>101554
I wouldn’t exactly call it cheating, but it’s a no go. It would hurt me too. If he truly doesn’t see how this was awful and apologize profoundly and honestly tries to do better, I would break up with him. You are worth so much more, nona. No woman deserves to be treated like this

>>101558
yeah, no. once someone expresses polygamous/monkeybranching desires, i don't think we are truly compatible. i've never had these desires so i just don't give a shit to repair any notion of a romantic relationship anymore.

also, i'm pretty sure he has an obsession with "containing" me in a way. i've offered a peace offering and yet it doesn't seem to satisfy him even though i've repeated over and over i'm sick of him trying to get my attention. i'm okay with him moving on. i won't hold bad feelings towards him if he just finds someone else. we were just not compatible once i accepted he had polygamous desires.

>>101577
no. i hate polfags and i generally dislike people who are super into politics as a meme or speculation without a moral compass

>>101579
no i think marxism is fucking gay with some substantial philosophy
> friends
i mean im on the board. if anons are your friends then whatever

>>101575
one more thing i thought of - using romantic or sexual language towards me even when i said i don't view him that way anymore. it confines me, almost as if it's intentional, when i have no desire to think of him as a romantic or sexual partner anymore

he's polygamous and he just doesn't acknowledge it. he would keep accusing me of talking to multiple guys but they were just random people online i would pass time with, and would never speak to again. we literally met on an imageboard so i don't see how it makes me hypocritical, i never gave a shit they were guys. it was all just projection on his part and it makes me sad we had to end things slowly instead of ripping the bandaid altogether.

>>101604
why am i fucking doing this? goddammit we just are not compatible, it's sunk cost fallacy and nothing more. i don't hate him but i hope he finds someone that suits his interests better.

>>101605
that's all it is. i don't hate him. i actually think i care about him a lot which is why i stuck for so long. i want him to find someone he is willing to make compromises for, im just not a polygamous person. maybe there was just a lack of attraction on his side, i don't know. but if he sees this i hope he understands why i have to move on and i wish the best for him and i hope he wishes the same for me.

only mildly related but wwyd if you found out your bf uses /soc/?

I think that's something that a needs to be expressed as a boundary of respect if it bothers you.

>>101722
What if it was Tinder? I think /soc/ is worse than Tinder, and probably has a higher concentration of STDs.