/feels/ - Advice & Venting

low quality bait. if this is real, you're awful. let him move onto better things, you suck.

while his new interests may seem kind of normie or whatever, he’s just growing up..he’s not always going to be the same guy he was while you knew him…but don’t fixate on him when in reality you were looking for others while u had him

>>104579
I’m trying.. I had my reasons and some of them are valid but it doesn’t matter because what I did was incredibly fucked up. I just miss him a lot and I know that doesn’t matter. He’s seeing this other girl and it’s only been a month so I know a fraction of what he feels.
>>104616
Idk about that.. I didn’t cheat in the beginning but idk I felt unseen and the only time he gave me attention is when other guys wanted me..then he’d be really nice.
>>104562
He offered some of the meat if he goes hunting. It made me wanna puke. I just want him to be him. He’s in this band and he started spending all of his time with them. Like he said he’d be home when I got off and he wouldn’t be. He never invited me out with them like ever. One night he just went over there and forgot to tell me. He stopped listening to music he liked and dressed differently and it felt really bad
>>104550
Yeah I know

>>104631
Idk cause I don’t really have family and he was my only sense of stability. He’s also like my first and only boyfriend and I’ve never been through a break up

>>104692
idk he wasn’t like awful all the time. He did like pick me up by my hair one time when I was crying into a pillow. But nothing more serious than that. I’ve been talking to this incel off of 4chan and he’s so nice and I don’t trust him at all because of my ex. I have no reason not to trust him because he hasn’t given me a reason to. He pays for my therapy and let’s me call him whenever even if he’s asleep and doesn’t get mad at all. Like my ex use to scream at me for waking up if I got up to pee in the night.

>>104737
And it’s weird because after I started talking to the incel. I don’t post myself on social media or even talk to other guys even though he lives so far away because I’m not like longing for attention and affection all the time

>>104798
It could have been worse

>>104805
I'm sorry but that's a massive cope nona

>>104807
Yeah I know. I just idk… I had valid reasons for cheating on him but also I shouldn’t have but I just wanted him to be better and he never was and I just waited and waited.

His idea of like doing so much for me was when he got up from the couch or whatever he would always give me a kiss. Which was sweet but he never even got my flowers or planned out a date or planned anything for my birthdays. What if he’s better to some other girl? Idk that thought hurts a lot

>>104549
meh just because your gf cheated on you doesn't mean you have to take it out on a bunch of random animals - that's psychopath tier. hunters are basically little jeffrey dahmers waiting to happen.

go NC for both of your sakes.

Holy shit imagine getting cheated on multiple times, and brushing it off repeatedly. Now he's talking to you again, seemingly back for more infidelity. Truly a match made in hell.

>>104920
You sound like you love a sheltered life if you believe that.
Hunting is also about respecting the animals and conservation efforts.
There deer population has gotten to large and deer die of station when they get old from grinding down their teeth.
It's get hit by a car, shot by a hunter, or starve to death.
Hunting license revenue also go to the natural resources bureau who help protect endangered species.