/feels/ - Advice & Venting

it sounds like you'll just go back to men once you've healed from whatever abusive relationships you were in. definitely still bisexual just changed fixation. ignore the dyke telling you to kys though, what a piece of shit

This must be bait.

>compulsory heterosexuality
This term was invented by a bi woman

Horrible post

bi women cosplaying as lesbians are disgusting

>>104903
Straight anon who's been watching this get bumped. Just curious from an outsider perspective if there is a reason bi women aren't accepted as having lesbian feelings.
Is it because you don't find their feelings as valid or is there a fear of fickleness?
Just curious, as a straight person I'm completely indifferent but I'd never be in a position of having a relationship with a woman so I can't mentally place myself there.

>>104904
I'm a bi woman myself, but it gives the same feeling as a straight woman dating a straight man, but identifying as something else (non-binary etc) and calling themselves "soOo QuEeR!11!" when they're your typical straight couple but they want to feel special.
Plus, it's dishonest. There's no reason to lie to people you want to date about your sexual orientation. If you lie to get into relationship with them you're no better than a moid.
Bisexual and lesbian women have vastly different experiences when it comes to dating. Lesbians aren't attracted to men, not under any circumstance, unlike bi women. The only way a lesbian woman would get into a relationship with a man is by force, and she'd never agree to have sex with a man or be attracted to one.

bi woman like op makes me want to kill myself. i hate bi women so fucking much it's unreal

you're definitely still bi. men have treated you poorly because they're all scumbags but that doesn't mean you're not still bi. you would know if you were a lesbian.

>>104899
i dont think i ever liked boys actually, i think i just needed their validation. my relationship with this boy was perfect, but i was still not satisfied, because i didnt feel like me

>>104934
im not bi and dont be rude, bissexual women exist and thats ok either. but yes im a lesbian, i just dealed with having to seek male validation my whole life, and my therapist helped me with that, so if you are also an therapist i will listen to you, but as i know you are just an anon here

>>104936
oh i know im a lesbian! but its difficult to accept myself after all i been through, i dont feel any sexual atraction for men and i just really aprecciated the friendship i had with men, i dont wanted to actually date they

>>104901
yes and yet still she likes women, but where did you read that?

>>104903
im not cosplaying, why would i want to lose the friendships i had?

>>104905
>>104899
>>104899
oh and my first love was a girl i liked back at school, my first kiss was with her and my whole life i dealed with duality feelings about girl x, y and z and feeling i NEEDED to like men to not feel different and isolated, but that changed and i really considerate myself lesbian!:)

>>104905
idk if you think that im bissexual but uhh i was never atracted to the boy, i just loved the idea of him and the friendship i had with him, actually dealing sexually with him felt disgusting for me.

>>104901
Adrianne Rich and Monique Wittig?

Gold stars often treat women who ever slept with a man the same way that 4chan racists treat a white woman who slept with black men. For some reason it is much harder for them to imagine a naive teenaged lesbian terrified of total isolation sleeping with a man despite feeling no attraction to men than to imagine a straight woman sleeping with a man whom she personally feels no sexual attraction. Don't let it get you down.

>>104954
thank you very much anon, youre a kind person<3

>anons who are lesbians or at least sapphic
>at least sapphic

wtf does this even mean? i hate you all retarded zoomers so fucking much. and i bet this op is not even a lesbian fuck you all spicy queer straights. and what even is the point of this post? what a horrible time to be a lesbian due to the influx of people like OP and trannies. i would rather live in the past where lesbians didn't have rights. at least it's easier to find actual lesbian

>>104968 lmao im lesbian, sapphic if you dont know means a girl that likes girls, but isnt lesbian. dumb fuck.

Damn surprised at the meanness here, op was being vulnerable and this is the feels board cmon

>>105019
>stop making up words
>makes up a word
So you can do it but others can,t? You fucking schmickledookie

>>104993
>sapphic if you dont know means a girl that likes girls, but isnt lesbian
what
>>105017
those anons are seething bc theyre bitchless virgins

>>104993
that's not what it means, it means lesbian or bi. basically it's like "wlw".

>>104993
>>105040

>sapphic
>wlw

These are both bullshit terms only used by TRAs and troons. Just use "lesbian" or "bisexual". Not terms used by TIMs to force their way in LGB spaces.

>>105074
not true in my experience, the point is just to have a term that's inclusive of both lesbians and bisexual women. maybe trannies like to call themselves "sapphic" because almost all of them are bi and they like being able to use a female-specific label for it, but they didn't invent the term.

so a normal person wouldn't refer to herself as "sapphic" rather than lesbian or bi, but you would use the term to refer to lesbians and bi women collectively.

>>105080

What makes sapphic different from lesbian? Sappho was from Lesbos, which the word lesbian already originates from.

wlw I for sure never heard of before gendie crap and screams as being in the same camp as latinx pronouns and POC (Which I also think is idiotic because white is a color too. Literally combination of all colors, actually.) . If you're attracted to women but not lesbian, just say bi or that you like women, and be done with it. Not everything needs a label.

this is why lesbians hate bisexuals. they get tired of men and then go "oh em gee I was secretly a lesbian the whole time!!1". i'd lay down my life that op ends up with a man

I say don’t worry about the labels too much and just date whoever you’re attracted to.

Seeing this is as the most recently bumped thread funny because I just came to the feels board for the first time in months to blog about the exact opposite (will take that post to the vent thread)

Women are beautiful, omit the most wonderful scents, it's well known that girls know how to please each other better than guys because we know firsthand what feels good on ourselves, and although I've never been in a relationship with a moid to say for sure, same sex relationships feel like a closer bond because we don't have to wrap our heads around how the opposite sex thinks and acts.

I think you are blessed. Just don't tell girls you hit up too much about past boyfriends right off the bat. It's normal for lesbians to experiment with guys while deciding their sexuality, the gold star shit you read online is more of a joke irl that no one actually takes seriously, but unfortunately there is a reason why bisexual girls are a big red flag to lesbians: all the confused/curious straight girls who adopt the label for 6 months before realizing they have no attraction to womenand ghost the girlfriend who had feelings for her.