/feels/ - Advice & Venting

>>106348
>despite his radfem single mother upbringing, he turned out to be an abuser
I am shocked.

>>106348
moids usually end up screwed up because of a lack of sane father figures. even radfem moms can't really contain their inherent tendency towards dark triad behaviour because men just possess an inherent respect for other men that they simply don't for women - to them, the same advice from the mouth of a main hits differently than from a woman

>>106348
It seems like a horrible idea to teach a male child radfem. A core tenet of radfem is the masculine need to dominate and conquer being rewarded in patriarchal society. The child will either become one of two things

1) Realize it's a way to get ahead and exploit it by being violent, patriarchal etc, thus becoming successful
2) Become a guilt ridden male feminist who is detested by himself, men and women
High chance he'll be the 2nd first, flip to the 1st and develop enormous resentment towards women

Don't aim for a unrealistic family ideal, let things happen.

>>106385
it's probably more like the mother is going to be a bad mother

>>106390
Why would a mother being radfem make her a bad mother?

>>106390
She was a good person, maybe not the best mother but as good as a single mother can get.
She just let him near gross men I guess.

>>106378
This is true, he even had an older sister but he went to an all boys school aswell.
If he went to a mixed school without male ideologies spewing from his friends mouthes then I think that he wouldn't be so degenerate.

But it doesn't matter. What matters is that he was an animal despite the efforts to make him human and that is why I have nothing but resentment for them now.

>>106385
Think you might be right but I think he’ll be a combo of the 2. Not black and white more on a spectrum

>>106391
Can’t nurture the same way. Kid would have mommy issues
Divorce even screws up kids, the step parents scar the kids. It’s sad that here in the west that over half the kids are traumatized in some way or form.
Now a days the people I see that are still married are immigrants
Hopefully in this regard they don’t assimilate

>>120740
That's because those are the old fashioned type of relationships where you have to get married and have kids because that's what you're supposed to do. You also have to stay together because that's what you're supposed to do. Kids under that can be just as fucked up, but for different reasons. Speaking from personal experience.

That societal pressure still exists in the West, but it's massively weakened leading to the popularity of being single or just DINK. When they get together it's primarily about feelings. Which is why divorce is so high when it's not an obligation anymore. Feelings can change or fade.

>>120740
That 1% is not worth it trust me

>>120740
I think I'd be less fucked up if my parents just divorced instead of making me witness their miserable relationship my whole life

>>120740
>india
>1%
jesus

>>120740
These statistics are fake tho

>>106378
>moids usually end up screwed up because of a lack of sane father figures.
Which is hilarious because that means a moid's humanity banks on the one in a million chance that their dad either is in their life or at the very least isn't a monster himself, which is probably why men in general are completely fucked.

>>106385
I don't know if I buy this, I think it depends on how you teach radfem to your son. Guys literally throw a shitfit if you tell them that rape is bad after all, so ingraining it into them from a young age seems like the only viable solution.

>>120740
Left: countries that make divorce illegal through real or soft laws
Right: countries that acknowledge that women deserve at least one or two rights, maybe more

Anyway you can't honestly be in defense of a slave institution like marriage, what fucks kids up isn't step parents it's bad parents. Always has been.