Anonymous 108386
How do I stop being a fixer?
It's very annoying when most of the time I am either ignored and they keep repeating the same thing later, or I end up having to literally apologize for genuinely trying to help some one. I just don't understand. I hate helping people but I keep getting triggered to help them.
People talk to me about their problems and some of them actually get angry at me and stop talking to me when I suggest something they could do about it and it makes no sense.
Anonymous 108387
Sometimes you just need to vent. Though you have every right to complain if a person is constantly using you as their emotional toilet with zero desire to do anything about their issues. Some people are just emotional parasite pity-whores like that.
