/feels/ - Advice & Venting

you sound stable

>>110016
Why would anyone enjoy being anything but the first and only love of your partner?

My husband only had 2 women before me, I got over it, but ngl at times that shit kept me up at night, promiscuity is cancer.

>>110018
I just despise them as people. They drank and smoked a lot, masturbated, sucked dick, had threesomes with him that included other women (aka cuckoldry), had sex on the side while dating him, liked shitty poetry and pretentious paintings, studied something like liberal arts or some other useless major, etc

Inb4 >they sound like fun unlike you lol!!

>>110020
Why are you even with that man??
Jesus Christ just find someone you can actually trust, these type of issues never get better.

>>110023
Although his former partners and his own past are depraved, I trust him.

>>110024
Sorry for your loss.
You deserve better.

>>110016
why do you even care? They're out of his life and you probably won't meet them.

>>110083
He's still friends with one of them and regularly mentions good things about another one. Almost like he hasn't got over her.

>>110093
>He's still friends with one of them
Okay that's awful, if you knew that from the beginning I wouldn't have dated him in the first place. Keeping a distance to opposite sex friends is a healthy habit in general.

>>110019
If you feel so strongly about it, why did you marry such a promiscuous man?

>>110096
Schizo

>>110094
I'm not really worried about her since she's married now. Plus, she's not the one he has simped the most for.

>>110016
You shouldn't be with a moid with stupid whore exes to begin with.

>>110098
>>110128
"if you ever ever had a single girlfriend or two before you're an used object and should be thrown into the trash" posts like >>110019 sound 100% like a parody of maleposting you should take your meds "nonas"

>>110141
If it's just one or two, it's pretty okay. When the body count approaches 10 though… it means the person can't keep their shit attention span focused on one "love" interest for longer than two minutes and will forget about you the moment you part ways. They will use you to kill time or lower the horniness particle levels in their body. No attachment, no significance given to your interactions. You will be as cherished and appreciated as a cheap fleshlight.

>>110141
If I'm a virgin, he better be. Simple as.

>>110141
>"if you ever ever had a single girlfriend or two before you're an used object and should be thrown into the trash"
This but unironically.

>>110165
how many male virgins have you met that you found attractive?

>>110630
I have never met an attractive moid regardless.

>>110020
It's so easy to direct your anger towards these exes who aren't even in your life instead of confronting yourself with the fact your man was the one who voluntarily dated and loved these women you hate so much. Even better, you're the one knowingly dating a man who had threesomes with "stupid whores" kek.

Pretty funny honestly.

>>110020
newsflash: if he mentioned having threesomes with his exes, he expects that out of you too. have fun being with a pornsick, disease ridden manwhore i guess. or get some self respect and find someone who won't triangulate you with his exes.

>>110016
in the same way you can hate the raccoons digging through your trash. but you're better off because that trash isn't your problem anymore. don't waste too much energy hating trash pickers. you'll heal

You lose when you let yourself feel such strong emotions over people that shouldn’t matter.

>>110020
I take it back.

>>110637
LIAR!

>>110785
99.99% of moids are ugly

>>110675
>t girl
hehe

but seriously, why stay in a relationship like that? you've clearly already given up on it so why stay in such a negative situation? doesn't it ruin your mood?

>>110852
>>110675
can you guys not announce you're XY? unlike other miners i don't mind that you're on this board, so long as you don't break this rule (and/or interact with the terf threads). thank you.

why

>>110016
sure but acknowledge the fact he chose to date them probably knowing that they were stupid and whores and probably was aroused by those traits
also assuming you don't know his exes personally, he'll probably portray you as another stupid whore to his friends and new gf when you break up

>>112001
ntayrt

> he'll probably portray you as another stupid whore to his friends and new gf when you break up

OP, this is true. My husband never trashtalked any of his exes. If he calls them names, he'll call you names.

No. My Nigel's ex seems sweet and normal despite being born in quite unfavorable circumstances. I have nothing against her and probably never will.

>>112070
That being said, I had a big issue with my previous ex's ex because they were emotionally involved with each other the entire duration of our relationship. I was being retarded and should have just left him tbh.

Jealous over exes? Just wait until your Nigel cheats on you…

>>112601
Lel

>>112601

I suppose it would have been worse if mine had cheated with someone hotter, but I found out he was the community dick for his uggo friends.

Yes, it's completely understandable, but try not to let it consume you. Hatred and passion/love are only a fine line apart and it's easy for you to start focusing on how amazing and attractive the exes were instead of stoking the fire in your own sense of love towards yourself. This will make you bitter and your current partner WILL taste it on you over time, even if you never talk about it. Trust me. The best thing you can do when you're in the thick of it is trying to convert the hatred into a complex about why you're better and how you can do everything they did well, but in your own unique way, plus more. However you want to spin it. This will eventually take you to a state of peace where it'll be easier to see them as just other random humans your partner ran into in this big wide world.

>painting is titled "Time Saving Truth From Falsehood and Envy"
>"The naked figure of Truth is held aloft by her father, Time, who with his scythe subdues Falsehood, in her fine apparel and dissembling mask, while the baleful figure of Envy recedes, protesting."