/feels/ - Advice & Venting

-Frankenstein, 1818

im sorry nona. i would say consider looking into pcos treatment or diying estrogen like trannies do and get a hormone tester. switch to a low protein keto diet, drink more water (fat diet = better fat stores for estrogen, water = puffy face). do not lean forward if you do that in case of creating intercranial pressure (causes your browbone, nose, and forehead to protrude). might be a cope but bones dont stop morphing when were older, you could do intense lower body exercises in the hopes it could change your hip size (if nothing it will at least thicken your butt). walk with your glutes not your core, walk with your legs inwards not outwards. wear clothing that suits you. for everything else, im sorry, you could check out facial feminization surgery.

>>111576
you dont have to diy estrogen you can just go on birth control that contains estrogen
also try getting your eyebrows done it makes you look so much more feminine

Get help, might be expensive cause of makeup/beauty products but if you say you don't have striking moid features like tall or huge feet then it might be fixable.

people would tell the exact same thing nona, i’m sorry. you’re a woman through and through no matter what they say. if you have facial hair like me try shaving it with those little face razors or get it threaded/waxed. i changed my hairstyle to masquerade my squareish face i got from my dad and it makes my face look a little v-shaped. i feel like mascara, concealer, a colored lip gloss and blush goes a long way too.

>>111906
not OP, but what kind of hairstyle do you have none? I also have a square face thanks to my dad's gene

>>111908
something like this, the bangs hide my square hairline and the longer pieces on the side hide some of my face

>>111523
I am sure you are very pretty and there are many ways to dress flattering for your face and figure even if you don’t have the most stereotypically feminine look. There is no normal when it comes to womanhood and you just gotta own it

me too. idk what to do.

you could just lean into it– get shredded, play rugby and be built like a shitbrick house

There are worse things in life than being ugly. Some people have their entire family killed in wars.

>>111523
I had a huge crush on my friend in high school for like a year and it turned out she was a girl which totally fucked up my perception of my sexuality.

Masculine women are attractive. Aidens who mutilate themselves not so much, but idk I'm kind of like those scrotes who "arent gay but would fuck/date a femboy" but the girl version.

me too nona i have a very squareish frame and i look like a crossdresser whenever i try to wear anything that isnt just baggy tshirts and jeans

>>113303
its almost as if this is a place to express your feelings, ops being one of those

>>113303
What a stupid thing to say. A 10/10 whose entire family was killed in a war will always have a better life than a 1/10 in literally any situation. If someone is hot random people will basically throw away their lives to get them the life their appearance “deserves”.

fuck off tranny

>>113551
Not every woman is 5'0 uwu smolbean with extra wide hips and doll-like face, some women are born with unfortunate features

>>111523
Ok. How bad is it though. Using Brock Lesnar's daughter as measure are you better off or worse off?

I genuinely think that even if you have a big chin or a masculine frame, etc you can be pretty but only if you take really good care of your skin and hair and of course work on your self-esteem.

…Let me qualify this statement. I don't mean to say you can become as cute as a young skinny girl in her early 20s or something but you can be as attractive as one if you have an interesting personality and look

>>111523
You should do some reading of Russian literature. You'll understand reality's dark truth in its most reoccurring theme. Guess what. Life sucks. It's largely brutal, cruel and ruthlessly unfair. Billions of women never found love, and most of them settled for shitty men. It's been like this since forever, and certain aspects have been made worse in the present than in the past (and others improved).

The best thing we can do is to find joy in the little things we do to distract us from our challenges and tribulations, like spending time with friends and trying new things.

Find a mission. A career you can excel at, or a hobby/project that attracts like-minded people to want to hang out with you. As women we work harder than men and get more results in the corporate world. Also guess what? Almost every female CEO is ugly or unattractive.

Stop looking for love, it will get you nowhere. Get rid of your expectations from life. Just do what you enjoy and things will sort themselves out.

>>111523
have you tried going on hrt to become a male?