/feels/ - Advice & Venting

no you're not.
we're all gonna make it. c:

No. Huge cat attack!!

>>113202
There's this book called "It's not you: 27 (wrong) reasons you're single" - it's pretty soothing when it comes to dealing with a lot of "why did this happen to me?" thoughts.

he's a pornsick useless shithead literally why do you care

>>113319

I would pay someone to come to my house every morning, firmly hold me by the shoulders, look me in the eyes, and give me a mini peptalk like this.

>>113202
day 319:
Was doing fine, now crying, because I just found out he's still in love with me and broke up because he didn't want to hold me back from with a LDR.

>>113202
Day 131
I would've bled out if you told me, you liked the color red. You were everything I wanted in a person, you were just healthy, I wasn't. I'm sorry I hurt you. My biggest regret was not being there for you, when you needed me the most and how I never got chance to say, I'm sorry.

Men never feel this way it's always women sacrificing themselves, protecting men and kneeling to them

>>113505
it's cherry picked and looks like a muslim country and a lot of those women didn't even get to marry out of love since it was an arranged marriage

>>113484
wrong

>>113202
day 1919:

Sometimes I forget you were even there. Other times I frantically search for updates on you. Everyone has moved on and I don’t miss our relationship but I’m nostalgic for the pain of being with you.

therapy

>>113313
not OP but I found this book incredibly comforting.
>>113473
how did you find this out? if someone's actually in love with you they won't break up with you (or if they do they'll take it back shortly after) - it's fairly straightforward. everything else is a line.
>>113531
I get this. My worst relationship, which was also my first one, ended 3 years ago. Not at all in love with my ex and he's sort of the baseline against which I measure if I don't want to date someone (since I had another partner after him who was much better and is the baseline for what I do want) but there's this weird hole the first one left in my solar plexus that aches whenever the weather changes and certain kinds of music come on. It's pretty weird. I like stalking him sometimes online, but he's incredibly boring. He just isolated and has acted like a total schizoid ever since. afaik he's unemployed now, which makes me quite happy, since his job/money was all he had and he'd always pick it over me. I'd be happier if I had a new bf though.

Day 117: im starting to realize that learning how to cope with loss is a very difficult but positive thing

1 year later: I don't care anymore but I also think back at those moments with nostalgia although it's not been too much time