>>114018Incels these days are way too obsessed with looks, genderwars etc and they aren't wholesome at all. A guy like that could never be happy about the fact he got a gf and he'd be the first one to leave her for a 10/10 or any woman who ranks higher than his gf if he had the chance to, as it somehow makes his low self worth grow. No man who's secure in himself would actually give that many shits about his partner's looks because he's able to recognize true love and companionship. A real man doesn't have to rely on a pretty partner to boost his confidence in the game against other man as he has enough going on for himself and is way less superficial when it comes to love.
But sometimes I still pity incels. It only makes sense for them to be more obsessed with beauty in women, seen that it is rare for them to get attention from beautiful women. Any man who's used to it will value your character and what's beneath the surface 1000x more. An incel will always go after the "best" he can get, which in his twisted mindset isn't the person he feels real love towards but the best looking woman he can get his hands on. Even if he looks worse than his partner, he will still seek the very best he can get.
That's why the fantasy of the cute nerdy bf who only has eyes for you and who loves you for more than just your looks, just like you love him for more than his is just a dream - a dream that can never become reality. At this point I'd rather just die alone than date an incel. Not to say that other moids don't care about looks (I'm not that delusional), but I used to try and give incels a chance and they were the shallowest people ever. I've had way more pleasant experiences talking to normal guys or just by staying on my own really. Which is kind of a pity because younger me really thought she would get herself a cute nerdy non-bitter incel type bf until she realized non-bitter incels don't exist. But luckily me now is happy that she's doing very well on her own.
