Anonymous 114113
When you feel like your friends or partner are not putting your same energy or effort that you do, what should you do?
Anonymous 114116
Honestly I just put in as much effort into a friendship as I want and I try not to think too much about whether they reciprocate the effort because that only leads to spiraling. I put more effort into friendships that make me happy because I want to (and then it doesn't really feel like effort) and I put less effort into friendships that don't bring me as much happiness.
