>>114394Hey Nona. If you want to be a mother, and your current weight & body makes it so you aren't having a period, that's not your dream body. You have to train yourself to look at the extra weight differently. Not saying get fat, but you have to eat enough, and eat well, and exercise, to have children and raise them well. I struggled a lot with this when I recovered from anorexia. I still do, sometimes. But when I look at the mirror, I see the extra fat on my lower belly, protecting and nourishing my womb. I see my arms are larger, so I can hold my babies longer. My hips are wider, so they can be carried comfortably while I go about my day. My thighs are bigger, so I can run after them and play more. I maintain a body that functions as it should, so that I can show them how to love and care for their own bodies.