men and their first love?? Anonymous 115180
i’m deathly afraid of getting into a relationship with another man. ever since i’ve heard about the “men’s first love theory”, whenever i’m talking to a man, i wonder if he has experienced his first love and if he’s over her or not. i’m scared of being with a man who’s not over his ex. i’m scared of being with a man who will reminisce about his ex. multiple times i have heard these stories where a girl’s boyfriend wasn’t over his ex or he goes back to his ex. i read about one girl who caught her boyfriend stalking his ex on social media. another girl posted and stated that her ex said even if he was married and she walked back into his life, he would drop everything for her. honestly, i’m afraid of their first loves too. i see so many women posting online and talking shit about their ex’s new girlfriend. i do not want to see my boyfriend’s ex posting “HIS NEW GIRL AINT SHIT!!!” or bragging about how they were each other’s first for everything. like please let me be a lover girl in PEACE and MOVE ON?! overall, i’m just scared of dating another man. i don’t think i have ever had a man love me like that. let alone i don’t think i have ever been a man’s first love either. the man i believed to be my “first love” doesn’t even want me at all. he literally cheated on me multiple times. i don’t know if i could ever trust another man again. i don’t want to have to feel like i’m competing with my future partner’s first love just for him to still love her more than he loves me. i thought about searching for a man who has never had a girlfriend or at least have a serious relationship before, but i feel like since i’m older now (im 18), it’s so much harder to find a man who’s not already experienced.
Anonymous 115181
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>>115180the human experience is
not unique to youyou will heal, you will overcome. God bless.
Anonymous 115182
>>115181Whys did I first read this as "do you want to heal"?
Anonymous 115186
just find yourself a virgin bf
Anonymous 115190
>>115180Don't date used goods.
Simple as.
Anonymous 115191
Ok so your problem was going for someone who clearly didn’t care about you. As another anon said go for a virgin guy but as your prob no longer a virgin yourself it’s not worth it. You will only put your partner through what you’re suffering now. I managed to find my bf on a soc thread 4 years ago when he was 19 and I was 21 and we were both virgins. Been together since and plan to spend our lives together. There are definitely dudes out there with no love life history but it’s not fair if you’re bringing baggage to the table for them to have to unpack. Good luck finding a guy in a similar position as yourself who got cheated on and knows your position and sympathizes with you.
Anonymous 115193
I really like that drawing, what was the inspiration for it?
Anonymous 115203
>>115191well thankfully i’m still a virgin my cheating ex was a jehovah’s witness
Anonymous 115206
>>115205Men who have the most sex are obviously the most desirable. How else would they be getting so much sex otherwise?
Same for the other way around, a virgin man is a man no woman has ever wanted.
Anonymous 115207
>>115206Or maybe they have some sort of values? I came across with a man which was really awesome but he devoted his life to God.
Anonymous 115208
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>>115204having a virgin bf who acts like he's going cave diving every time he gives head
Anonymous 115210
>>115207Unfortunate that if you live in the West, you can really only find virgin guys if they're extremely religious and want you to take their religion.
Anonymous 115211
>>115210Move to the East then. Or find Asian guys in the West, I guess.
Anonymous 115213
>>115210I'm religious so I don't find that unfortunate.
Anonymous 115239
>>115205Brutal pinkpill. Imagine devoting your life, bearing the kids, giving away your best years to a moid who just seetles with you and compares you with the perpetually young memories of women he had been with.
