my brother keeps holding me back Anonymous 115469
minor vent but gosh to any potential future parents here please don’t have a kid and then decide to have another one like 8+ years later, im the second parent and it’s so fucking annoying. im 18, my brother is 7 and i’m so tired of having to keep myself from doing what i wanna do jjst because i have to watch my brother and respect his wishes of him not wanting to go to a babysitter or his math tutor. i wanted to go jog today, so ideally i’d drop my brother off at his tutor who lives in the same building as me so i can just go fucking jog and have peace but he hates her and doesn’t wanna go, guys please please don’t have kids with huge fucking age gaps you’ll ruin the oldest sibling’s life. doesn’t help that he can’t stay calm for shit either
Anonymous 115470
what do you mean he can't stay calm?
Anonymous 115479
I get what you're saying but please but things into perspective, in a few years you'll move out or he'll age out of needing a babysitter, whatever comes first. Your life isn't ruined, you're just temporarily dealing with having your freedom a bit restricted. It'll pass, if this is the worst of your problems you're doing pretty good. I totally get how you feel, but put it into perspective for your own sanity okay?
Anonymous 115483
>>115479tysm, i really needed to hear that and you’re right
Anonymous 115491
>>115471It sounds like the problem is your family's retard genes
Anonymous 115503
>>115491takes a retard to know retardation :P
Anonymous 115505
>I have to
What?
>Mother, Father. You procreated that little retard, you care for him. I'm your daughter, not your nanny and I didnt tell you to shit out another one regardless if you are able to deal with it or not. So tag you're it, not my problem.
Anonymous 115588
>>115469If you aren't financially dependent straight up stop helping. If you are, weaponized incompetence to the max.
