Anonymous 116646
hello nonas yesterday,
yesterday my mother asked to cut my hair a bit since it was growing uneven, it was five fingers below my shoulders and she gave me a bob above my chin
I even tied some hair so I don’t lose length an then just felt it fall
she said she cut it that way so I look girly cause I’m supposed to be a girl (I had a long mullet and that’s manly for her?? idk)
she knew I was trying to get long hair. I rage cut it when stressed and haven’t done so in a year, so it was a reminder I’m doing better
I know it’s stupid but I have cptsd and trying to keep myself alive, so the little achievements like my hair are a big deal to me
I have way bigger problems but I’m also allowed to be upset about things like this I think. I feel stupid
writing here at least makes me feel not unseen even if a lot of times I never get a response
it’s funny
I wish a mother would hug me
Anonymous 116651
Yes you're allowed to be upset about this. I think I'd be upset about it too. But that is great progress that you were able to grow it out that far. That doesn't get erased just because your mom cut it off.
I'd give you a hug, but I'm not a mother.
Anonymous 116855
>>116646i get how you feel nona. id be upset too in your situation. Please try to stay strong and try to remember that the smaller inconveniences shoudlnt determine our day
Anonymous 116941
That really fucking sucks, a very valid thing to be upset about
