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How to make friends when you stereotype people? Anonymous 116775

I would like to make friends to have someone when I go out places (store, mall, out to eat) but as a girl it’s hard to make friends when you’re not an “OMG GIRLIE YOUREE SO PRETTYY” type of person.

I feel like so many girls on my campus are like this. Idk if I’m autistic or what’s wrong with me, but I struggle to act like that.

Anonymous 116777

>>116775
Whenever i meet people like that i always eventually become aware they are begging for scraps in life (from men) and i lose interest. I don't want to get roped into what comes with that. There are a few who are not like that and their gems. That is just a fact of life everywhere and it has nothing to do with being autistic.

Anonymous 116790

I get it, women like that often end up treating me like a man and it can be alienating.
Find women who are shy and awkward or who have a history of trauma. The latter are more accepting even if you aren't hyperfeminine in behaviour yourself.

Anonymous 117067

Never submit to normies

Anonymous 117069

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>>116775
Same here noona. I feel like most girls learn early on how to fit in with others which is why they have eccentric/"I'm so silly" kinda personality. People like me never learned that and now we're too old to change it. Although I've noticed, kindness goes a long way when it comes to making friends. I'm peak autismo sit alone kinda person but I still managed to get close with girls by helping them with things like supplies, homework, etc. Just don't be judgemental and be kind, you'll find people who befriend you out of politeness lol. Altho, most of those girls dont have a personality so you're gonna have a tuff time relating to them if you can't match their energy

Anonymous 117086

>but as a girl it’s hard to make friends when you’re not an “OMG GIRLIE YOUREE SO PRETTYY” type of person.

ah you are stuck in being identified and in the process unlearned your humanity. puppet. if you are a machine hellbent on maximizing utility, then nobody wants to meet you. reconnect to your human side, enjoy your life, make your own decisions, be unique and spread joy instead of wasting your life chasing profit.

>but I struggle to act like that


consider that when you stop acting and return to being a genuine living, breathing human then people will be open to meet you. why would anyone want to meet a human pretending to be a robot when there are actual robots. stupid child good luck.

Anonymous 117089

>>117086
stfu stop powerlevelling kiwitranny.

there are no children on this board the same way theres no girls on the internet. everyone here is a troon which includes you. DIE!!!



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