>>117115I'm sure you're NOT an awful person op. You sound like you just drive yourself nuts with self criticism. How could you compare to this guy though? Do you lovebomb and use men and throw them away?
Yeah unfortunately this is just something you have to expect from men. First and foremost they manipulate you for sex. You have to wake up to the fact that everything on this earth is a form of male manipulation for sex. Towers, Cars, Roads, Art, pretty much everything they say and do, is unconsciously designed to give them access to sex. A lot of it isn't unconcious though, some men do it completely intentionally. Men are like this, they are twofaced and do not care about the feelings of your sister, or your brother, your mother, they do not operate emotionally like you do they're pretty much drifting along waiting for the next meal, 9 times out of 10. Having sex with a dude is almost always a con if you do it right away. Notice how if you refuse and make them wait, a lot of them will get mad and just leave. You should never deeply emotionally invest in a guy. No matter what he says until hes proven it enough times that hes worth having sex with.
Curious what you project into their minds when you start getting to know a guy OP.
