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"You Are Your Own Voyeur" Anonymous 117450

after seeing all the pick me threads, I think it begs the question, is it possible for women to separate themselves from the need for male validation (however abstract or literal that is) and seeing things in terms of that intrasexual competition (aka girl on girl violence)?

what does it take to coexist with men but not be "of the man's world" or living for it/them?

Anonymous 117451

>girl on girl violence
>infamous picrel
this has to be a bait thread

Anonymous 117459

>>117451
>infamous picrel
what is infamous about it?

Anonymous 117631

It is fully possible. It's much easier if you are not het [spoiler]or have extremely weak attraction to moids[spoiler]or had an early introduction to feminism at a young age. Not wearing makeup, deleting social media, reading books by women, wearing comfortable and practical clothes, doing all of the above even if it makes you want to kill yourself from discomfort because it eventually leads to you being more grounded in yourself, speaking up, etc etc.

Anonymous 117639

>after seeing all the pick me threads, I think it begs the question, is it possible for women to separate themselves from the need for male validation (however abstract or literal that is) and seeing things in terms of that intrasexual competition (aka girl on girl violence)?
You can separate yourself from the need for male validation completely, and intrasexual competition partially, if you just swear off relationships with men. The need for their validation will naturally leave you. Also, when other women notice that you aren't trying to attract men, they will compete with you less.

Anonymous 117822

male gaze inside w…

The "male validation" and "male gaze", that hangs over the eternal pickme like the Eye of Sauron, has very little to do with actual men and a lot to do with their own crippling insecurity.

Clinically deppressed women who claim to hear voices in their head also describe it as a middle-aged man's voice.

Anonymous 117823

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>>117822
"a woman with a man inside" haha slaps knee

Anonymous 117827

found-her-dehydrat…

>>117823
Why do you sound like you have a dick though?

>>117450
It is impossible for me to believe any scrote actually suffers. Even when they say they do, its always self imposed on account of ego and hoping to one-up another moid, or control a woman. They do it out of PRIDE not because they feel weak and powerless and alone, or because they can't escape a situation. They extremely rarely in positions of powerlessness to escape their darkness.

When they mock something like postpartom-depression or .. any kind of woman's suffering really… They're always post their question asking "how could your suffering benefit you at all. why do you stay in that situation, it is just somethingdragging you down worse " like that little wastes of space they are.

Their entire existence is pure ignorance.

Even when they do suffer its for a good cause and its a long time coming. They NEED to suffer. Like a 14 year old piece of shit needs to suffer after torturing and killing a cat. They need to suffer to learn humbleness and give up hope that we will pander to their hypocrisy and entitlement at all.

As a woman it is so easy to stop feeling anything like sympathy towards them. Even the most well-intentioned moid has levels of entitlement and ignorance of suffering that you cannot comprehend.

In general I just say fuck being nice in most cases. I will chose detached indifference until im convinced. Being nice doesn't benefit you unless its with people you really really trust. With outsiders including women, they are so quick to prove they're moid-obsessed or backstabbing misogynists cruising for moid approval (because they were gaslit by the same shitty moids im describing).

If you are nice to moids its serious though, you're just playing into being the easy victim they can gaslight in a million ways and call crazy. They do this universally to all women on some level. Even if its just a little bit they are still doing it. I find coexistence in that state impossible.

So their "male status" is nonexistent to me i dont even acknowledge them.


(I really think anyone who prioritizes relationships with men are full fledged psychos. I thinking seeking out relationshit with moids REQUIRES you to become a gasligther and go into denial to protect the moid you "love" from their own filth)

Anonymous 117829

>>117827
I AM NOT A MAN I AM JUST IMMAtURE AND CHILDISH AND MY BREATH STINKS AND I NEVER HAD A BOYFRIEND OR A GIRLFRIEND AND NEVER HAD A KISS THANKS A LOT



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