/feels/ - Advice & Venting

how long have you been together? You probably need to come to terms with the fact that he's probably masturbated to the thought of what happened to you. And you should probably confront him about this and tell him how it makes you feel

>>117619
4 years… And i don't know how to come to terms with that thought, like, the only thing my brain can think when i try is "why?, it can't be".
And i know i should talk and tell him how much it hurts me but i don't know what i want to hear either. I don't think an "I'm sorry it will not happen again" will be enough.
This situation feels like hell, a lose-lose for me. I just want to cry nona, Everything about men is so traumatizing…

Get up and leave. There is no discussion to be had here. A moid who watches porn is a moid you can't save. I'm so sorry anon but you just have to get your shit, leave and never look back. The fact that he watches rape porn means he has the psychology of a rapist and is just too coward to do it.

>>117618
Douse him in gasoline and set him on fire.

>>117621
The best solution is to end it now. You can't put the cat back in the bag, and nothing he can say will undo your previous trauma with SA.

Its over nonas, i talked with him, i decided to end it there. 4 years wasted on someone like that…
Why are men always like this?, i'm too innocent and easy to take advantage of?, i'm stupid maybe?, i don't know. This feels like my rapists just took everything from me and that all men just can see me as a toy.
I'm scared of this thoughts. What should i do now?.

>>117661
>what should I do now
Go to therapy, work on yourself, stay away from shady corners of the internet, work on self-esteem, get a hobby, work out (endorphins are good), do not speak to degenerate men, no sex, no hookups, nothing. Just focus on yourself.

Dump him, only a serial killer has a porn account

>>117661
>i talked with him, i decided to end it there
Damn what happened

>>117674
I did a lot of that actually, I feel… great, I don't need a man, I thought it would be harder but it wasn't. I feel sad but also feel like nobody can hurt me anymore. I have things to do, a life, i don't need men, i just like to be alone and i didn't knew it until now.

>>117780

He said he was sorry. He actually had a fantasy with it. When we had sex he was imaginating he was my rapists… But not in a "harmful" way he said, it was just because he was frustrated another man taked "his girl" and he wanted to protect me… Sick af, sounded like he was just angry he didn't rape me first.

>>117831
sorry
just couldnt fucking
help myself lol
why. lmao.
can we all agree the most equivalent rape there is that comes from a woman is being told stories that didnt fucking happen so you can get indoctrinated into some discord groomers cult. XD