Crazy MIL stories? Anonymous 120042
Since my husband died 3 years ago, my MIL has:
>Shown up at my house
>Called my work 3 separate occasions and told them I was arrested for prostitution
>Knocked at my neighbours house to ask for info about my activities, accused me of having a party
>destroyed anything I leave at his grave
>Opened up letters I left at his grave and acted scandalised by the contents
>Called every member of my family and friend to drunk-rant about how we all caused his death
>Every family member has blocked her on every app, since once she's blocked one place she migrates to another
>Demanded his friends stop talking to me and uninvited me from the funeral
>Called or threatened police on me multiple times
>Threatened me with lawyers over possessions of his I don't have and threatened me with police because I attend his grave
>Periodically unblocks me on instagram to tell me I'm a cunt/waste of oxygen/disgusting and then blocks me before I can block her
>All of my family have a no reply and block policy in place for her
>Asked journalist to suppress his diaries because they painted me in a good light which threatens her narrative that I abused him (aka used reasonable firmness to take his drugs off him. He died of an OD)
>Contacted people from my past to try to find 'dirt' about me and told me that because my ex used drugs that I should have known how to prevent this tragedy
>Thought it would stop after the inquest, which covered my extensive efforts to control his addiction and schizophrenia. Coroner played a telephone call where I begged an indifferent GP (and later a useless cop) to section him, both of whom told me to kick rocks and then cried ignorance to the jury (even though I gave them both explicit suggestions/instructions to help him)
>drugs were bought, sold and taken in his childhood home, so you think she'd cut me some fkn slack re blaming me for everything
I know it's partially my fault but the authorities DID have an obligation to help him
My previous MIL was so based I miss her.
Don't really need advice just thought I'd share the absurd situation.
