/feels/ - Advice & Venting

>>122102
Found the scrote

That's honestly harmless

>>122099
I don't understand some nonas.
I get being alone sucks but dating a fetishist is much worse.

Is he getting weirdly insistent on you wearing a maid outfit or was it just something that got brought up and not paid much attention to?

>>122099
It really depends on the details. By itself, it's harmless.
I'm fairly certain a lot of it is just the appeal of the outfit and moids not having any understanding of women's clothing. Then, the rest is mostly guys wanting caretaker figures or subservient women they have power over because they're poorly socialized.

>>122124
he said that I would look good in such clothes and offered to buy it for me

>>122156
Sounds like basic uniform fetishism. If you aren't into it, just say no.
However, the big question now is what sort of clothes your bf will actually buy. Will it be actually something of decent quality you could wear semi-regularly, or will it just be cheap underwear/a halloween costume? That is the big test.
Alternatively, find something decent online yourself and send it to him. The housemaid look can be achieved simply with a regular black dress with an apron, combined with some other odds and ends. If it turns out he just wants the stupid cartoon look because he's retarded, don't bother.
>he said that I would look good
As if he knows fuck all about this. He's just saying that to try to get you into the outfit.

>>122156
For what it's worth, it sounds like he's being pretty normal about all this if he doesn't ask you about it every day. Indulge him if you want, or not if you don't. Doesn't really ring any alarm bells in my head.

>>122099
>>122124
What would be weirder him buying a cheap plastic amazon maid costume (of tiktok memes), or him getting a high quality maid outfit made of real textiles (cotton, linnum) that reproduced some historical style?

>>122263
Obviously he would be weirder for the latter, but weirder in this case doesn't exactly mean bad. That just means he's based. Men who are knowledgeable (or at least give enough of a shit to do some research) about these things are ultra-rare

>>122307
Tineye didn't bring up any results, what is this character from? She's super cute.

>>122312
Oh. I realized the artist's name was on the other images. It seems like fanart? I don't know the source material so I'm goingvto continue imagining it's a cute girl.

>My boyfriend possibly has a fetish for maids
Being attracted to females in clothing that accentuates the female figure isn't a "fetish", it's heterosexuality.

>>122307
you're making a pretty good case
just randomly spent the weekend learning about domestic animals and owner psychology and I would absolutely appreciate a male who can appreciate and enjoy the process of research

>>122314
It's better if you think he's a cute guy.

>>122315
Ehh. My personal opinion is if you wank to something and feel good afterwards and feel soulful and wholesome it's healthy sexuality, and if you wank to something and you feel sort of shit and disgusted with yourself or like you didn't gain anything then it's a fetish

I sense for op's bf it's more fetish than healthy sexuality

>>122315
It's misogynistic, honestly. Perceiving your partner not as an equal, but as a servant who will do whatever you say. Maybe this is healthy sexuality on the part of a man, idk

Ask him to dress up as a maid for you. If he isn't willing to debase himself why should you?