Anonymous 122103
There's this guy I'm basically dating, I haven’t made it official because e-dating feels kind of cringe to me, but he tells me he loves me, that I’m perfect, and exactly his type: smaller, thinner girls. But then I came across his Reddit and found two NSFW boards… one of which featured a thicker woman.
Why do men do this? Why make you feel like you’re the most amazing woman in the world, only to turn around and ogle someone else? Why lie?
What makes it worse is that I’m not even allowed to look at other men or wear certain clothes because he’s possessive.
At this point, should I just block him and move on? Honestly, it feels like so many guys are disgusting these days. I’m starting to feel like I don’t want anything to do with them anymore.
Anonymous 122106
Block him and move on. It’s not worth it to wait until he cheats on you.
Anonymous 122107
Yeah, don’t even bother, nona. All men do is lie and ogle other women while claiming loyalty. That’s quite literally all they do. You can try to stay, but it’s just going to make you an anxious mess. Every guy I’ve ever dated has done this, and if they say they don’t, they’re just lying about it. They’re such dishonest people. You’re better off focusing on other things.
Anonymous 122111
mature decision: block and move on
immature decision: tell him he's perfect and then make it known you're secretly lusting after a guy who looks the complete opposite of him (revenge route)
Anonymous 122112
>>122106>>122107>>122111Thanks everyone. Yeah I'll keep my distance. Honestly I'm just using him to play games with since I have no one else online to play with. He's just someone to pass the time with. I've basically lost all feelings for him after seeing his Reddit. Scrotes are so pathetic it's sad.
Anonymous 122113
>>122112what games do u guys play together? you could find a nona ur age to do the same with in the friend finder thread if talking to him brings sour feelings
Anonymous 122114
>>122113Thank you I'll try that and lately we've just been playing Halo.
Anonymous 122375
>>122111This will do like 0 emotional damage to him. It is a complete waste of time since deep down he gives no shits about Nona, so ofc he won't care if she has "someone else" come on
Just find someone else to play games. Gamer moids are never in short supply (unfortunately)
Anonymous 122376
>>122112You should have left him as soon as you discovered he was a R*dditor but better late than never I guess
>Why lie?He wanted to smash that's all there is to it
Anonymous 122377
>>122375real revenge route is simply suddenly leaving for someone else, straight up
which would work since he's possessive
in fact the real problem is that this dude is possessive lol
Anonymous 122379
>>122375I feel like a lot of women know very little abt moids and how to "get back" at them bc doing that would very much wound his ego like nothing else. they are deeply hypocritical creatures and you can look at their behavior to figure out what hurts them most.
Anonymous 122388
>>122379Op here. Yes he's allowed to ogle video game characters but as soon as I do the same to male characters he gets upset with me. He also has a lot of female online friends he used to play with…
Anonymous 122398
>>122388>He also has a lot of female online friendsew… cmon nona you dont need this
Anonymous 122405
>>122388not to be persecution but i have a question.. when you said you will keep your distance, did you mean you actually blocked him and moved on or are you just ghosting him for a few days?
Anonymous 122418
>>122405He's been obsessed with me lately and claims he loves me it's just so hard to believe him when he always plays as female characters and is just overall obsessed with the female body..
Anonymous 122427
>>122418love is proven by actions, not words, meaning he has to stop doing shit that makes you uncomfortable
some dude being "occasionally obsessed" with you is worthless and harmful
stable love is where it's at
