/feels/ - Advice & Venting

>>122222
typical nonvirgin bf behaviour

Its ok nona, satisfaying a slut moid aint big shit

>>122223
i believe this is true

>>122223
i'm 30 and willingly remained a virgin despite having had bfs because i just knew they weren't the ones/didn't really love them like that, and it sucks that ideally i'd love to be in a relationship with a man who did the same: willingly staying a virgin despite having the chance to lose it, and we both lose it together because we're each other's one true love and everything is beautiful and perfect. but all 25+ male virgins are either violent incels or abusive christians, and even then if this kind of man exists he's probably a porn addict anyway, i'll have to give up my dream

>>122230
got an ex who was 34 years old and virgin partly because he was waiting someone special and partly because trauma of being raised with an authoritarian mother. He struggled with mild ED but got in therapy and got better. We broke up anyways but it was mostly my fault and i hated it. Im better nowadays.

The point is there is good men out there who are virgins post 30 but they are pretty rare and maybe they need help.

>>122233
Did you meet someone new?

>>122233
Why did he have mild ED if you don’t mind me asking?

>>122222
This is funny but also sad.
How do you even end up with guys like that?

>>122237
Yes, but nothing serious this time. This was my third long term relationship, this guy really cared for me but I couldn't give him the same love. Something is broken inside me.

>>122252
I don't know… I never asked details about his therapy sessions, I think they are deeply personal. I presume it was psychological ED related to anxiety.

>>122222
dont worry too much nona it was probably just bad communication about what you both wanted from sex. like how much were you on top? how much was he? what did ya'll want out of oral that kind of thing. i like to watch porn (like the demented autistic girlie i am) to watch what people are doing then combine that with what actually feels good during sex. also like emotional connection can make a big difference, the guy i am currently dating is not the best skill wise but the communication and connection is the best i've had so the sex is better

>>122222
men's opinions don't matter at all