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how to cope with being genuinely ugly and undesirable? Anonymous 122270

i don't know what to do anymore. i want so badly to form a deep connection with anyone, but nothing i do makes me feel less like a creep for wanting to do so. i haven't had a bf since middle school– and even then he broke up with me because his dad told him to once– not only because i'm ugly, but because i'm a burden and not willing to take any risks. i have absolutely no self-confidence anymore and nothing i do, nothing i achieve makes me feel better for more than a day.

Anonymous 122272

Lots of ugly people have sex/relationships with other ugly people. Lower your standards?

Anonymous 122279

>>122272
Did you even read what she said? This has nothing to do with her standards.

Anonymous 122287

you can’t get a boyfriend before you improve yourself. even if you are “ugly”, guys can tell that you’re unconfident. is it possible that you want to get a boyfriend just to feel better about yourself? like, you want someone to love you because you can’t love yourself? that’s where the hard work starts. you have to find your self-confidence and the learn to enjoy who you are.

Anonymous 122330

Having a boyfriend isn’t what it’s said to be even the ugliest men below your standards will cheat on you

Anonymous 122366

Same here, I got bullied so much in middle/high school I can't look at myself anymore. I don't even want to be pretty, I just want to feel okay. the problem is that everything I try just feels wrong, wearing makeup, going to the gym, taking care of myself in general. I can't live like this

Anonymous 122538

>>122330
Idc I just want a bf so fucking bad

Anonymous 122539

>>122270
Are you fat?

Anonymous 122540

>>122539
No. I'm a bit overweight but nothing egregious

Anonymous 122541

>>122330
true, it honestly often ends in bitter goodbyes. the only relationships I envy are the ones where someone has been together for like 5+ years and they've never done eachother wrong during that time. no cheating, insults, boundary breaking, disrespect etc. but thats the extreme minority of relationships

Anonymous 122542

>>122540
>I'm a bit overweight
So yes

Anonymous 122547

lower your standard
looksmaxx
hit the gym
run
diet
be productive

Anonymous 122548

>>122547
if i do this would u give me chance nona

Anonymous 122549

>>122548
chance? chance of what?

Anonymous 122595

>>122270
I wish women would start loving themselves more, a moid liking you isn't what society tries to sell you, and it's not a measure of your worth by any means. It's not even about attraction, men literally see women as nothing but holes, they'll fuck animals, babies, corpses, trees, anything they can stick their dick into, so killing yourself in an attempt to be "desirable" with diets, makeup, surgery, uncomfortable clothes, or becoming depressed over them not liking you is just not fucking worth it. Hell, my ex was both poor and ugly (the supposed "good guys you should go for") and that didn't stop him from getting off to loli rape porn and becoming incredibly aggressive when called out, no matter how much genuine love and kindness I had shown him before. There's a reason why even good looking men stay the fuck away from men, they're all equally incapable of love. You're safer, healthier, and ironically glow more when you don't have a leech by your side demanding things from you and berating you for not meeting them. Love yourself nona.

Anonymous 122596

>>122595
good looking women*
I said the word "men" so many times that my brain didn't make the switch, but yeah, just look at the 4B movement for starters. Ugly or hot, fit or fat, poor or rich, short or tall, all men simply want to use women and discard them the moment they aren't useful anymore, so don't let it dictate your life.



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