how to cope with being genuinely ugly and undesirable? Anonymous 122270
i don't know what to do anymore. i want so badly to form a deep connection with anyone, but nothing i do makes me feel less like a creep for wanting to do so. i haven't had a bf since middle school– and even then he broke up with me because his dad told him to once– not only because i'm ugly, but because i'm a burden and not willing to take any risks. i have absolutely no self-confidence anymore and nothing i do, nothing i achieve makes me feel better for more than a day.
Anonymous 122272
Lots of ugly people have sex/relationships with other ugly people. Lower your standards?
Anonymous 122279
>>122272Did you even read what she said? This has nothing to do with her standards.
Anonymous 122287
you can’t get a boyfriend before you improve yourself. even if you are “ugly”, guys can tell that you’re unconfident. is it possible that you want to get a boyfriend just to feel better about yourself? like, you want someone to love you because you can’t love yourself? that’s where the hard work starts. you have to find your self-confidence and the learn to enjoy who you are.
Anonymous 122330
Having a boyfriend isn’t what it’s said to be even the ugliest men below your standards will cheat on you
Anonymous 122366
Same here, I got bullied so much in middle/high school I can't look at myself anymore. I don't even want to be pretty, I just want to feel okay. the problem is that everything I try just feels wrong, wearing makeup, going to the gym, taking care of myself in general. I can't live like this
