Anonymous 122475
>break up with bf
>get back together
>notice 700+ deleted messages with one person, A
>asked about it, he lies
>said once during the breakup he "was getting desperate" but never did anything, using a nickname others use but mainly A1
>A1 not awkward around me or him
>said he wouldn't want to be with anyone, all he wanted was me, seemed convincing
>A1s body type in media, seemed inappropriately irritated and awkward despite minimal reaction from me
>uste to talk about how i took his (virginity), kinda guilt tripping me to stay sometimes, but doesn't anymore, sees as toxic or other?
>he was very rude when we broke up even reaching out on fake numbers to insult me, so maybe shit talking?
thoughts?
Anonymous 122477
>get back together
>…
>he was very rude when we broke up even reaching out on fake numbers to insult me
Another /feels/ relationship I can scarcely believe is real.
Anonymous 122478
sounds like my abusive russian ex, horrible evil person, lied about his entire life and i believed it, leave him while you still can
Anonymous 122479
i looked through his tiktok reposts n i found zero evidence and also reposts supporting his albi
>>122477well i blame myself
Anonymous 122483
>>122475Not saying you should date him but I actually think the erratic behaviour is evidence he's pretty attached to you (if he wasn't he'd be more cold/indifferent/wouldn't behave that differently after the breakup). He's using anxiously attached protest behaviour, he's not being avoidant.
Anonymous 122485
>>122483i realize we both hopelessly play negative attachment roles but i'm not really sure how to be normal id assume he's similar
Anonymous 122486
>>122485meh I think anything
other than avoidant behaviour can be worked around with love.
