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Anonymous 122671

What do you do when you never feel quite yourself? I know everyone has different personas. Who you are at work, or with friends, or around family. But I think most people have a base. I think most people know who they are at their core. But what do you do when you have no clue? I never feel like myself. Often I feel like there isn't a 'me' at all. Everytime I think I've found myself I realize it's another layer of deceit.

Anonymous 122674

The Japanese say we have three faces. I'm too lazy to remember what they were, so you look it up for yourself.

Anonymous 122684

>>122671
https://psychclassics.yorku.ca/Jung/types.htm
>4. The Extraverted Feeling-Type
yw nona
>inb4 "dividing people into groups creates othering" - recognize that humans have developed a group survival mechanism where we each get born with specific focuses which allows for insight and creation within the domain, this creates personal blindspots which others of the group are supposed to support. This is why the modern world sucks, we are supposed to live in tribes of up to 100 people, individualism and democracy create a state where we're supposed to all be equal and are measured by very specific criteria that aren't even supposed to be on the mind of some types of people - by making them change to fit what is expected a lot of value is lost as a society.
So to nona - what is your gift, which in a hypothetical world where there was a tribe of 100 people would be treasured?
Whatever the answer is, try to create it in your own life.

Anonymous 122685

"no sense of self" is a feature of some cluster b personality disorders and some others. it primarily stems from trauma. I think all you can do is gradually expressing yourself more and more, as much as you can. (and deal with the things that prevent you from doing so)

>>122684
mbti shit is retarded enough as it is, trying to tell people feeling empty inside is normal is harmful

Anonymous 122697

>>122671
The woman on the right looks like JK Rowling

Anonymous 122707

>>122685
>trying to tell people feeling empty inside is normal is harmful
Wrong. Trying to tell people that it's not normal to feel empty inside in todays day and age os harmful.
>retarded mbti
>goes on to talk about cluster b as if that's not stereotyping and scapegoating a societal problem on to the individual.
Bravo, you seem to have a PhD in gaslighting.

Anonymous 122708

>>122707
shut up retard

Anonymous 122712

>>122708
Heh

Anonymous 122751

>>122697
>Zoomers don't know Meryl Streep
I feel old now :(

Anonymous 122761

>>122751
That doesn't change the fact that she looks like JK Rowling

Anonymous 122762

>>122761

Hope your eyes start working again soon


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