Are men evolving to a sociopathic hivemind? Anonymous 123286
This is a genuine question, because I can't fathom any other reasoning. Courting is dead, it's gone. In no particular order the following occurs: love bombing, ghosting, mirroring, hot/cold method. Even my friends who fit the patriarchal male gaze to an absolute T (virgin, quiet, submissive) are getting stepped on. It seems like all or nothing, there is no slow progressional vetting before a clear decision is made. Many other girls around me in my career and academia have given up on the idea of marriage and children. The ones that haven't tend to have a man-child tier boyfriend or they're accepting to be chronically cheated on.
The ideology that women have to be top 1% of females to deserve a male counterpart that doesn't wreck havoc on livelihood and minds is insane. I've talked to many boomers and they agree something is universally wrong; we are no longer just homemakers, but we have the ability to be that and MUCH MUCH more, how are we all fundamentally somehow "never enough" for them?
Anonymous 123287
>Even my friends who fit the patriarchal male gaze to an absolute T (virgin, quiet, submissive) are getting stepped on.
They have always been the first to get stepped on. That's why it's the patriarchal ideal lol.
Don't have an opinion on your actual question though.
Anonymous 123288
>>123286>In no particular order the following occurs: love bombing, ghosting, mirroring, hot/cold method.holy shit, youre right. oh well, i just use men for money ive given up on love kek
Anonymous 123289
>>123288I cant bring myself to do this cus I imagine they'll be even more angrier than normal if you dont give them what they want asap
Anonymous 123291
>>123289some men associate their ability to provide so closely with their masculinity that they'll be overtly generous just from receiving non-sexual female attention. at least this is how my last relationship went down. though he did admit he got sexually aroused from sending me money. but love? unless a guy has been properly vetted just assume hes subhuman trash who doesnt deserve love.
i know some women who are in happy marriages/relationships where they barely have any complaints and whats funny is that they arent top tier stacies either, one of them is fat
Anonymous 123293
capitalism has commodified everything.
Generally society tends to improve itself… If you look for a relentless force that eats everything with no stoppage, there is only capitalism. Emotion and being are not subjects of philosophies anymore, it's a commodity for self care books and online formations.
Sex is no more the creative bond of two beings, original and emergent of the specifics of the people involved, it's a consumer media through porn, and a way to obtain social status and dopamine…
Everything is atomized and packaged into boxes of premade meaning, no place for art, singularity, subversion in a discourse commanded by box-making algorithms…
Death of the specific and alive. Except if you join the little isslaand of "anarchists", people who are worthless in the productive society, and live as vacationers, their own. Diogenes might have been too idealistic and ascetic, but he is very close to authenticity. We might look into his followers, Crates, Hipparchia, the fart man metrocles, etc…
Anonymous 123306
>>123301
you are as sociopathic as the chads you are jealous of so much, except you're too developmentally retarded to be useful to anyone as a bf. your only use is being a potential submissive boytoy to a top nona to be played with and dumped.
Anonymous 123344
>In no particular order the following occurs: love bombing, ghosting, mirroring, hot/cold method.
it makes me feel considerably less alienated to know I'm not alone in this.
Anonymous 123354
,>>123344
>In no particular order the following occurs: love bombing, ghosting, mirroring, hot/cold method.
as a failed woman that no man has ever approached in her life, can someone please explain this to me?
