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moid completely destroyed my sense of self Anonymous 07/19/25 (Sat) 11:39:07 PM124097

For context, A lot of men have been asking me out ever since I moved to a new city for college. I'm a bit lonely in this new city so I've been trying to make new friends.

Last week, a 40 year old man asks me out at my job. I kindly reject him (as I already have a girlfriend) but I ask him if we can be friends instead. He says yes and I get really excited. We end up going to a restaurant after work and this guy starts telling me about how he "only asks out ugly bitches because once you fuck 'em, they'll never leave" and that "they're desperate so they're bound to say yes".
So I asked, "Why don't you just date attractive women then?" and he responded with, "You forget ugly bitches are ugly if you hit it from the back".

After I heard all that stuff, I just felt like an ugly peice of meat.

Now I'm wondering if all the men who have asked me out before think I'm ugly asf too. Now I look in the mirror and cringe.

Is this normal?? Is this how all men view women? Or is this just how they view ugly "bitches"?
Has anyone ever experienced this sort of thing?

Anonymous 07/20/25 (Sun) 12:18:11 AM124099

>>124097
Seems like that dude was just an asshole tbh

Anonymous 07/20/25 (Sun) 02:48:45 AM124103

>>124097
He told you that to get back at you for rejecting him. You shouldn't take it personally. It says nothing whatsoever about you. That guy is a passive-aggressive asshole.

Anonymous 07/20/25 (Sun) 03:13:07 AM124104

>I ask him if we can be friends instead.
Don't ever do this.

Anonymous 07/20/25 (Sun) 05:29:33 AM124106

>>124097
He is 100% butthurt about you rejecting him. Moids do this shit all the time. My favorite is when they try to pretend they weren't hitting on you

>hey can I buy you a coffee?
>I'm taken, sorry
>ERM WHAT MADE U THINK I WAS TRYING TO DATE YOU?! I JUST LIKE BUYING RANDOM WOMEN COFFEE, LIKE GAWD YOU'RE NOT THAT CUTE

Anonymous 07/20/25 (Sun) 06:35:26 AM124110

>>124097
How are people real. Anyways >>124103 is obvious

Anonymous 07/20/25 (Sun) 12:07:01 PM124111

>>124103
>>124106
He is trying to get into her head to eventually fuck and destroy her and it seems that asshole is starting to get a grip on OP. This >>124104 is where OP fucked up first. Never drop your guard. Her second fuck up was not immediately leaving after the guy showed his true colors. There is no use in arguing or trying do understand moid trash

Anonymous 07/22/25 (Tue) 06:15:52 PM124150

I don't wanna be that person but maybe don't take the comments from a guy who is presumably tried to hook up with you despite being at least a decade (probably two) older than you. Like this isn't the guy you should base your entire perception of men off of. He's just a creep.
Look the fact that a decent amount of guy have tried asking you out show they your not considered "ugly" by them. If they just wanted a hookup they'd use a dating app or actively go for a girl who is known to be easy, not, you know, a girl in a committed relationship like yourself. Your probably a decent looking girl nona it's just that the guy whose opinion your taking so much stock in is a creep.

Anonymous 07/23/25 (Wed) 03:04:20 AM124162

>>124097
Ick.
If I were you I wouldn't EVER offer to be friends with a man like that. One who asked you out randomly and doesn't know you, because they probably arent interested in friendship and think they can redeem their chance. Also, men with bruised egos can be DANGEROUS. Dont go out with strange men.

He might've said that to make you feel bad for rejecting him. Like men when rejected will say something like "whatever, ugly bitch, i wouldnt fuck you anyway".

Something similar happened to me. I was at work and some old dude asked me when I got off. I said "why do you ask?" because I didnt wanna be rude but also I would never tell a man when I get off. He said he was joking.

He then told me about how he asked a "homely" girl the same thing because he felt bad for her because she was ugly. She told him when she got off and he said hed be waiting outside. Apparently the girl got mad and said "dont you dare!" or something. And he said he was like "jeez, I was just kidding".

Anonymous 07/23/25 (Wed) 07:12:33 PM124179

>>124097
Why does it matter to you what they think?
Moids who see you as meat will stop trying to date you if you make it clear that they won't get you without a massive investment of time and effort. Just make them do that and you are set.