/feels/ - Advice & Venting

>>124256
tldr sometimes your not the problem

Do n*rmies really put effort into socializing? I remember when I was little I'd play and laugh with friends with zero effort, I wanted to be there with them, I didn't have to arrange activities we'd just glide into them.

>>124272
>Do n*rmies really put effort into socializing?
I truly doubt that

>>124272
Normalfaggots aren't even really friends with each other

then stop trying, don't waste energy on people who can't be bothered

>>124256
i always wondered what the perfect amount of effort is most attractive overall. too much and youre a try hard. too little and you seem like you dont care. its so confusing..

>>124292
>>124256
I don't try, I simply do. The "perfect amount of trying" is who you are. Sometimes who you are is a mentally retarded, disgusting slob who doesn't care, and that's ok. "Hurr durr everything is trying" - in which case, "try" however much you feel like, or maybe don't try at all.

>>124294
>who doesn't care
sounds like you're just like OP except you decided to devalue the other person in question kek

>>124294
I agree. If one has to try, its no longer genuine.