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Falsely Accused someone of SA. Anonymous 08/19/25 (Tue) 10:29:40 PM124814

I beared false witnesses, accusing an old friend of sexual assault when I was 15. What provoked me? It was so fucking stupid. Him and I were having a conversation, he said something that made me change my entire perception of him as a person, realizing he was a lot like me. This was not a good thing I hated myself severely and still do to this day. And so I decided to avoid him altogether, this triggered him into insulting me during class. During this time, I had a fragile ego and was easy to humiliate, I would hold grudges as well. And so him insulting me caused me to skip school everyday, when I was caught, the only excuse I could think of was that I was avoiding an old friend because he grabbed my private area unwarranted. But this was not true you see. And I still don't even like this guy, I know he's still this ignorant bitchy fool but what I did was so wrong and unnecessary. His name was Cassius D, he lived in Carson. My initials are M.W. One thing holding me back from telling everyone about what I did, is the fact that I told my family that my brother touched me sexually when I was nine, because he did. God kill me now if I'm lying about this, I'm not. When I confess to everyone that I lied about Cassius, they'll then side with my pedophilic brother, thinking I lied about him too. This might be my punishment from God.

This confession is pushing me to tell my closest friend at least…if I do not confess, I will not change as a person even if I were to avoid doing such thing again. Because I'll continually deny my lies and this will put me in the frequency of tempted sinning and evil actions. My life is unfortunate. I am upset everyday. I have these different disabilities. I'm ugly, stupid and unliked. I will burn in hell.

Anonymous 08/19/25 (Tue) 11:02:13 PM124815

bruh the confession posts just keep getting better and better every time

Anonymous 08/20/25 (Wed) 12:20:10 AM124817

What happened in Cassius' life after you said that? Was he punished?

Anonymous 08/20/25 (Wed) 12:36:19 AM124818

>>124817
The teachers definitely didn't believe me. Security came in to question him but he's still roaming free, I didn't press charges on him. His social life and reputation? Not sure. I remember messaging my high school's Instagram confession page, telling them a fabricated story about how he sexually assaulted me. The account posted the confession. An old friend of mine reposted it. My other friend who argued with Cassius in public, told more people. He even printed fucking posters about Cassius. Maybe it's all died down now, maybe.

Anonymous 08/20/25 (Wed) 01:03:09 AM124821

>>124818
What you did was wrong, but in all likelihood, you're better off not dredging all that back up. I don't think it'd help him, unless he's still living around the same people in the same place and most of them believed it. Does he know it was you who said it?
If you can, maybe go to him in person, treat him with fairness/kindness and apologize. Explain what happened, why you drifted away and how it's plagued you for years. If you feel comfortable talking about your past, you could tell him why you didn't come out before. Again, this is all contingent on him and where he's at regarding the whole thing. It could cause more harm than good if he's fully moved on in life (and could be construed as dickish and self-absorbed if you randomly barged into his life over your own guilt), but if it still affects him and he's at all receptive to talking with you, it might be worth a shot. If people around him scorn him because of it, I'd say it's also worth clearing the air (maybe say it wasn't him that exploited you in that way, and leave it at that). If everyone forgot or thinks the whole thing was a dumb teenage tiff (which is pretty common IMO), don't bring it up, just leave it between you two.
Do note that if he suffers from any kind of BPD, is vindictive or is unhinged, he'll probably try to ruin your life if you go to him.

Anonymous 08/20/25 (Wed) 01:56:26 AM124822

he probabyl deseved i tbh, he would do the same to u hif he had the chance

Anonymous 08/20/25 (Wed) 04:43:04 AM124823

>>124821
I really appreciate your response.

So, yes he knows it was me. I've mentioned that he lives in Carson but that's all I know about where he resides. I could try logging into my old discord account and message him but I think he blocked me. I'll give it a shot though. Besides, I still have to eventually tell people in my life about my behavior.

And regarding unhingness, he is a little weird. He's kind of sensitive, and not in a good way. I could see him seeking revenge. Like I said, I still don't like him. The worse that can happen though is that he probably won't forgive me. Oh well. Thank you for your reply.