Is he hiding a porn addiction, cheating on me, or just weird? Anonymous 124972
My bf is the sweetest, most attentive, loving bf. He is in general very honest and says that honesty is very important to him.
Weird behaviors:
- Only uses incognito mode on his phone and on his computer (no search history)
- Once got an YouTube AD for OnlyFans
- Says he doesn't like to use non-incognito mode because he gets recommended "weird/sexual ads"
- Doesn't post me to any of his social media
- Makes his Facebook followers private from everyone (including me) but let me go through them on his phone (he says he doesn't like getting friend requests from strangers)
- Doesn't like any posts on Facebook in general because it will "mess with his algorithm"
- Doesn't let me meet his friends (he says he's not close to any of them)
- Doesn't want to be posted on any of my social media
- Initially didn't want me to meet his mom, but I gave him an ultimatum and met her
- I had a dream he cheated on me (if that means anything
However:
- No problem with me going through his phone + gave me his phone password (I didn't ask for it)
- No girls any social media explore page, likes, saved, messages
- Doesn't follow any women online (except for me)
- Doesn't post to social media in general
- Does like all my social media posts using his accounts
- Only has photos of me saved on his phone (a whole folder like hundreds) + his hobbies/interests
- No OnlyFans in his bank statements
- We spend most of his time together
- We take photos together
- Very serious about getting married and we went engagement ring shopping
Anonymous 124973
I think he's just weird. I also use incognito and I barely look at porn, YT gives me porn ads despite the fact that I don't watch that shit on there. I think he's just embarrassed to let you meet others and see what they think of him. He might value your privacy a lot too. If you've gone through his phone and didn't find anything weird you're probably safe
Anonymous 124975
>>124972He definitely has a porn addiction. You should break up with him and join us back in the bucket, fellow crab.
Anonymous 124976
It sounds likes he's just very careful about his personal information. If he posts photos of himself and friends on social media but not of you and him it seems kind of weird.
Anonymous 124977
Could be a simple case of tech-panopticon born paranoia, that's a good thing imo
Anonymous 124979
where are u all finding bfs who don’t follow other girls
Anonymous 124994
He's weird, but he seems the schizotypal kind of weird instead of guilt conscience weird. I actually really get not wanting to be posted on my SO's social media etc.
The only thing I really didn't like in the list is he doesn't want you to meet his friends or relatives. Like yeah, I get it he might be afraid of it being awkward and that's it, but that's not a good excuse to compartmentalize his social life imo.
