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meeting internet boyfriend Anonymous 125231

hi nonas,

have any of you met a moid from the internet before? i have been talking to a guy for a few months now and we are considering meeting. i have never had a relationship before so i'm nervous about what things will be like in person.. i don't know what to expect.

i have a tendency to self-sabotage and i worry that i am going to cut off this one chance i have at a relationship because i'm scared of what's unknown to me.. can anyone share advice?

thank you anyone who leaves a comment, i wish i had some friends i could talk to about this..

Anonymous 125232

>>125231
w the popularity of dating apps i think there's less and less social stigma toward meeting on the internet in general.. that said it depends a lot on how viable this relationship is imo when it comes to whether you're helping or hurting yourself by meeting him.

do you think there's long-term potential? also i'll say i think the odds of establishing a viable relationship via the internet probably go way down if it's your first one, you just don't know what red/green flags to look for going into it

Anonymous 125233

Where are you going to meet him? Just make sure you're going to a place where you're comfortable, don't let yourself be coerced into doing anything you don't want and have fun. Let him know if you're nervous. Make sure you have similar expectations of how your date will go.

If it helps, think of it this way. Meeting someone IRL instead of talking online indefinitely is a much better idea.

Anonymous 125235

> hi nonas,
Kek, the surviving 1/3 of genuine posts ever posted in this site are trannies, aren’t they?

Anonymous 125265

Yes, when I was 13 I met a moid from discord. I got my virginity stolen from me that day.
met another last year, we got high, and again, in my weakened state, had sex.
met one last week and yet again, it was a hookup.

it made my self esteem plummet and reminder that I am a whore. I don't want to be a whore, I just crave physical intimacy, not even sex, just cuddles or kisses. don't meet up with moids from the internet. but if you do, make sure you trust him and its in a public place.

Anonymous 125266

>>125233
I really want to meet up with an anon moid, hes from Norway and is really sweet. I'm pretty against e dating, but my city is shit and I hate all the guys here. I've met up with 3 different guys from the internet and it all lead to us having sex.
I'm fine with sex, I just don't want it to be dominantly that. hopefully a true relationship.

Anonymous 126423

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>>125231

i met my bf when we were 15 on a Discord server. i was very socially inept and depressed and i hated talking to most moids but he was always very kind to me and never made me uncomfortable, always comforted me, never expected anything. one time i got fucked up and really drunk and confessed that i liked him in call, and eventually we started dating.

we were kind of on and off dating when we were younger because we were dumb and stupid. now i'm 22 and graduating nursing school and we're getting married next year and i'm moving in with him. i'm still bad with social stuff and i don't have any friends but he has always been there for me and i'm thankful.

keep looking nona God has a plan for you and he will bring you a wonderful man soon. he will make your life easier and shelter you from all the evilness in the world.

Anonymous 126604

>>126423
im genuinely tearing up reading this. that sounds so sweet i hope your life gets better with him :)



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