/feels/ - Advice & Venting

>>125271
men larp and say they like my personality when I know deep down they think I'm weird and "masculine" because I'm introverted and like tech and shit. its over

>Do MBTIs really affect personality?
No.
>this personality type isn't very common for women and is predominantly men, which makes me feel even more like an outcast.
Yeah, INTP personality is basically the "outcast shut-in" personality.

>>125268
I mean mbti is literally your personality type. Doesn't mean you have to act that way it's just a tendency. Intps are at least still emotional and not totally femcel vibes, that would be intj, the rarest among women. You can just mask as normal.

>>125274
true. maybe I have some hope then.

>>125273
kek but at least I can still mask no?

>>125276
Mask among what kind of people and for what purpose? I guess you can mask among coworkers for instance, but forcing yourself to do that all the time is probably not the best idea for your sanity, when you could just hang out with people who accept you like fellow intp autismos or openminded normalfags.

>>125278
Masking around coworkers is pretty much necessary for 95% of people at least in office jobs

>>125268
Embrace it. You can actually understand and get along with men while contributing a female perspective that is uniquely female and uniquely yours.

>>125268
God you need to grow the f up op

>>125279
The fact that you care what people think is p-a-t-h-e-t-i-c

It does NOT take much to soak in your interests and personality and not be socially awkward. Its extraordinarily easy. Jesus fucking Christ you guys are pathetic

>>125291
>It does NOT take much to soak in your interests and personality
not sure it helped you nona

>>125272
any concrete experiences to make you think this or is it just a hunch?

>>125290
you sound extremely unemployed.