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Mommy/daddy issues Anonymous 10/01/25 (Wed) 12:30:12 AM125658

My parents do not care about me like at all.I had to find a place to live within 15 days. When I told my dad he basically said I should have planned better. My mom treated me like shit about it. My step mom was nice but not in a genuine way. This has set me up for being a complete failure socially.
My managers at my job helped me find a rental. They were the only ones who went out of their way to ask me how it went. To ask when I was moving in. If I needed anything or any help. I feel like I owe them now and like I’ve gotten too close to them and I wanna quit my job and never leave the house again. I know I feel this way because of the way I’ve been treated by my parents.

Anonymous 10/01/25 (Wed) 01:19:21 AM125660

your parents are neglectful assholes, I'm sorry about that nona. dads getting rid of their old kids ASAP after they find a new woman is a fairly common thing for some reason

Anonymous 10/01/25 (Wed) 02:09:18 AM125661

>>125660
He doesn’t even have new kids. he’s always been like this. Like he just shouldn’t have been a dad. So I don’t fault him for it. I just wish I wasn’t born.

Anonymous 10/19/25 (Sun) 07:34:26 AM126053

>>125658
Very sorry to hear that your parents lack empathy for their own daughter. Hope it can turn around for the better for you. Glad to hear that your managers cared. Its understandable that you feel indebted to them, but they were just being decent human beings. Maybe in the future those uncaring parents can be dumped in an old age home that shows that same lack of empathy.

Anonymous 10/19/25 (Sun) 12:50:45 PM126058

My parents cared too much. My mother would emotionally abuse me for not meeting her ridiculous expectations of me being a genius (had to start school at 5 y.o. as a child with ADHD because of them). She would feel guilty over it which lead to lovebombing spats which fucked up my capabilities for physical affection and made me anxiously doubt any acts of kindness towards me for the rest of my life.
They would bitch and moan about me not being able to support myself while also providing just enough support for me to depend on them, completely unprompted.

I ended up moving to another country and, as difficult as my life was for the first few years, it forced me to learn a lot of important things about life and myself. A part of me even regrets that I wasn't kicked out by my parents the moment I finished college.

Anonymous 10/23/25 (Thu) 07:47:40 PM126116

>>125658
>I feel like I owe them now and like I’ve gotten too close to them
Helping people who need a hand is actually pretty normal, you're probably overthinking it because your family is fucked up. I hope you find some cool friends, because if this much is enough to make you consider quitting your job, you may be prone to self-isolation. As someone who's dealt with AvPD, I get the social anxiety over that kind of closeness, but self-isolation isn't great for people. Probably gotta work on your confidence and self-worth after all that. You got a job and a rental despite your shitty family, you should be proud of yourself too