/feels/ - Advice & Venting

>>125690
Yea, if you’re a disgusting normie

You will only find real love if you focus on looking for well adjusted people not obsessed with virginity

No offense but you sound deluded. For most of human history men only cares about sex and using women. Marriage was a transaction, financial arrangement it was never about love.

There is a possibility of encountering those things with a moid but they're frequently gross. Often the only touchy feely men are hideous while demanding love with someone hotter than themself. They will force on you gendered hypocrisy, mind games so youre always meeting their secret demands.

Men only care about morality when it serves them.

In the 70s,80s, 90s id say maybe you'd have a chance if getting around all those things, but now the internet has tainted men with porn, manosphere garbage. It's like digging through a wastebin to find something rare and valuable. People, even women, are so much more opportunistic to score something 2 dimensional and retarded through a dating app too.

>>125693
You sound deluded

>>125694
Sorry I cracked your balls there scrote it wasn't my intention to write that for a moid

>>125695
Not a moid but I don't think op sounds deluded just naive maybe? You don't need to go full "kill all men" on her idk you're the one walking in with some whacko opinions here

>>125696
How can anybody know with all the larping and astroturfing on cc? That's virtually all cc is

In the 80s and 90s yes it would have just been naive but in this day and age ? Nothing in my post said kill all men but I'm not about to get bogged down in their bs either. Half of of them voted for trump and are porn addicted

That is not even close to a strange opinion that's just reality

You actually believe marriage has been based on love historically ? That it wasn't transactional? You're really reaching

>>125693
Can I add to that with a quote I just read ?

>Men get boners from their women destroying themselves. Hets persistently perform masochist-sadist dynamics no matter how much they try to say they don’t and they’re all lurving and accepting of one another, no, you can’t pretend to be “above” it, it truly is engrained in the het psyche. 9 times out of 10 the het dynamic is always some woman entertaining a fugly man and the man already knows she shouldn’t even be entertaining them, the first start of the self-degrading and trauma bond process. Once you dig deeper into the underlying mechanics of female-male sexuality it just puts a bad taste in your mouth. They know it’s a humiliation ritual and they find great kink out of that.

Kek I know it's out of left field but this is practically the first thing that comes to mind when I think of first time attraction and warm fuzzies with moids.

But hey you can always be lesbian or only look at attractive men in fantasy and be a volcel

>>125698
What's the source? I'm curious to read this myself

>>125697
I think it's way easier to meet a normal guy if you go to normal places for example

>>125700
>>125700
What does that even mean? A good ol Christian boy ? Someone who won't contribute anything in the house you live in and share? Someone with more entitlement to devious behavior ? Normal guys are porn addicted. Normal guys demand sex from you 24/7 if you live with them and have steeply sexist biases about women they love. Unspoken things they won't even tell you. They will just jump down your throat for every damn thing and misunderstand you, hold you to hypocritical standards and it takes years to understand WHY. Because with so many of them mind games are coded into the social fabric. They won't ever show you who they truly are. And you won't find out until your trapped with a baby. I AM talking about normal men. I'm not about to have 2bit conversations and expectations about them though.

>>125701
So maybe "normal" isn't the right word (definitely don't go to a Christian church lol) but like, graduate school, many majors will have guys who aren't internet/ porn addicts. They're a minority overall sure but they're there if you look in the right places. Well-adjusted men exist. I think it's easy to get jaded if you only go where retarded men go

>>125702
Lmao you think Christian sexist, bigoted hypocrite aren't all OVER graduate schools ?

If you are really smart and naturally suspicious, with really high standards? Go for it. But that already doesn't sound like op.

Young men everywhere are being radicalized now. Not just in church. More than half of men voted for trump. What does that alone tell you ? Normal guys everywhere hold extremist views. …And seeing as how a ton of women try to be super accommodating, disastrously insecure, and tendency to defend/ look for the beauty in ugly neckbeard apes until they're blue in the face ????

I'm just not optimistic for any already naive woman. Good god you can do anything you want right now but you want to get weighed down by a demanding, most likely ugly scrote??
It's just like dragging yourself through a bed of nails in this timeline. Even in the 90s it was ass and men were huge conniving hypocrites in graduate school

>>125703
Ok this is highly dependent on your state, idk what to tell you I hardly meet Christians where I live and no the men aren't radicalized with evangelical beliefs either. Get a grip

>>125704
>>125704
Just the fact that they're usually ugly as shit is enough to refuse to put up with their filth and universal porn addiction.

Christianity doesn't begin to cover their flaws. The thing that really gets me though is your intentional ignoring my point that they're parasites domestically. Most average men are going to be complete drags on your life. Ugly as shit is their worst, most insulting sin of all though.

And when they're not ugly they run around with insufferable ego

I'm starting to believe you're not even female, go figure

>>125705
> The thing that really gets me though is your intentional ignoring my point that they're parasites domestically.

Tbh I half read your posts, writing is really not your strong suit. I'm starting to feel like you're entirely clueless when it comes to sussing out men, like just pick one with a good job who makes a lot and will be out of the home most of the time anyway. It's easy shit nona. Then again if you've resigned yourself to being a radfem hermit who cares, but don't act like young people need to be this delusional, it's a choice you've made for yourself

>>125706
>like just pick one with a good job who makes a lot and will be out of the home most of the time anyway.

Nta but this is the most basic moidshit opinion I've ever read

Tell me you're male without telling me you're male

>>125707
I'm literally not male tho. Why be surprised you're finding shit when you're looking in a dump. Apparently the other anon lives in an evangelical hellhole and is very bitter about this like idk what to tell you if you choose to live there

>>125708
>like just pick one with a good job who makes a lot and will be out of the home most of the time anyway.

its kinda revealing nona

>>125709
Wdym financial bros are a dime a dozen for example. You ppl don't go outside much do you

>>125706
Throwing an insult before responding to the actual point is very moidful behaviour. She was being articulate but because you’re a drooling scrote, whose dopamine receptors have been burnt to a crisp from incessant porn and brainrot consumption, you are physically unable to read a full paragraph, let alone comprehend it.

>>125711
and your post is full of insults that are irrelevant to me? look in a mirror

at this point a mod has gone through and deleted an actual moid's posts while sparing mine, so I'm assuming they checked my post history and confirmed I am actually a woman (ty mod if I have this correct). this tin foil hat shit is just derailing the thread. you ppl act like I don't agree that 99% of moids belong in a dumpster. does that mean I'll tell my daughter that finding love is a lost cause? no bc I am not a doomer or some kind of female separatist. if love is actually something you're interested in then just be intentional about where you're looking for it (ie don't go wherever the men have time to watch porn 24/7). it's quite simple.

>>125703
>If you are really smart and naturally suspicious, with really high standards? Go for it. But that already doesn't sound like op.

I agree with nona about this so maybe we should just leave it at that. I guess I overestimated ppl's mental capacity here.

>>125710
It doesn't matter how much money they have if they are intolerable. We can all be guaranteed the money obsessed gargoyle will be maga these days. Money isn't shit to me if theid whole universe is a blackpill copium and I have to live the rest of my life with a Republican dirtbag

>>125717
I mean good god "just a pick some finance moid and throw out any other standard " is only a call you make if you're destitute from southeast Asia ( even then they usually clue in to the maga crap, decide to just pump and dump him and escape for their lives)

>>125713
But you just implied we should settle for mr. moneybags who is never home .. ? If I have to wait until he leaves to be happy what is the point?? lmao??

>>125713
>I guess I overestimated ppl's mental capacity here.
most of the people's rhetoric here consists of calling you a moid whenever your opinion slightly deviates from theirs. it's pointless to discuss anything in earnest with someone like @07 or @11 whose posts may as well be identical if you really get down to their point

>>125721
Big surprise most women here don't want to settle for being a tradwife, which is the what you're proposing honestly

>>125721
Well, it’s pretty difficult to not question your femininity when you practically said “just find a rich guy bro”. That’s a very common low iq moid take…