venting about my exgf Anonymous 126049
sooo i dated a friend of mine for literrally a month over the summer and it was fun but we were both mentally ill and terrible at communicating so it ended with her breaking up with me over twitter at 3am while high on cough syrup lol. when we broke up she told me that she didn't actually love me, and that she only dated me because our friends wanted us to. fast forward a few months later and while discussing our breakup, she said that she would've been willing to work things out if things between us hasn't gotten as bad as they did. recently, a friend told me that she had actually confessed to our mutual friend that she liked me, which is likely what made said mutual friend push us to get together in the first place. also, she told that same friend that she regretted breaking up with me???
i tried asking her about all of this and she just didn't respond which was really annoying because i talked to her later that day at an event we both had to go to. i want to try asking her about it again because i'm equally annoyed and confused and sad and want to know how she actually feels about me.
i wish i could say that i want to get back with her, but that's really complicated. i love her and she's a great person, but she's also a drug addict who refuses to get better and i can't have that stress added on top of everything else going on in my life rn.
should i see how she feels about me nonas?
Anonymous 126056
>should i see how she feels about me nonas
>i love her and she's a great person, but she's also a drug addict who refuses to get better and i can't have that stress added on top of everything else going on in my life rn
You don't need anyone else advising you on this, you already know the answer
Anonymous 126083
please don’t. she does love you but drug addicts will choose their substance over their loved ones. key word: refuses to get help. i have addicts in my family and know that their love is very real but their brains are taken over as if by a demon or parasite (depending on how far in the addiction they are) and their love is pushed out of the way by their chemical need of the drug. in a moment of clear thinking she realized what she did wrong. she has chosen the drugs over you and you don’t need the stress in your life. tell her you will keep your arms open for her if she really does decide to recover but until then you will not contact her. i am sure that she does love you but her brain has essentially been taken over by a substance that is literally poisoning her and also messes a lot with her emotions and way of thinking. and the reason she is being “confusing” is probably because of brain damage. she sounds immature and possibly bpd or something. choose your peace because this girl needs to get better and mature.
