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every person I meet turns out to be cold while I want closeness Anonymous 126668

So my first friend ghosted me without a word saying that she's not made for close bonds with anyone. My other friend said she doesn't feel the need to become close with someone. My yet another friend says the same. And my new friend said she doesn't get attached to friends and never feels deeply for them. Why am I so unlucky? And my closest current friend already had a best friend with whom she probably is close so with me she won't become close. I just want a deep connection and mutual attachment and obsession.

Anonymous 126671

You're probably just scaring them.

Anonymous 126672


Anonymous 126673

you gotta mirror and love bomb nona

Anonymous 126676

It sounds like you're picking from a stable of similarly guarded people and they're sensing you come on too strong. First question, obsession in a friendship?

Anonymous 126678

>>126668
Maybe you're acting too desperate?
That's relatable. You can't force it though, just try to feel comfortable with someone, that may work better than trying too hard to appeal to them.
>And my closest current friend already had a best friend with whom she probably is close so with me she won't become close.
>had
So they're not as close anymore?
I used to have three best friends I was super close with, but we drifted apart and they stopped talking to me completely. I'm now closest with someone I barely ever talked to and barely share interests with. We feel really comfortable with each other, she's just really chill. Sometimes, that's all you need.
You can still try being closer to that current closest friend. And make more friends while you're at it, you never know when someone could turn out to be someone you really want in your life.

Anonymous 126684

>>126668
Are these IRL friends or online “friends”?



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