/feels/ - Advice & Venting

It's just better to be single and travel and grow things and have cats. Read fiction. My own imagination is infinitely better than all that garbage they want.

>>127089
so so real nona. i could make up a man better than everyone that exists and visit him entirely in dreams and spend my waking life becoming a polymath. i would choose that over some guy who tries to call me a “great gal” rut into me for his own pleasure roll off and then play video games. no thanks. i had one try and tell me he saw me in his dreams for years before he met me, and he patted himself on the head for copying scott pilgrim and could only show me passion for like a week. they’re so boring. like for a generation so porn sick they don’t get sex or how to make it good at all.

"I'd rather have bad times with you, than good times with someone else/ I'd rather be beside you in a storm than safe and warm by myself. I'd rather have hard times together, than to have it easy apart. I'd rather have the one who holds my heart."

Most people are profane and incapable to love. Not a single feminist is capable to love.

>>127087
Men are dense so you need to convey your intentions as clearly as possible, perhaps this might help.

>>127096
i had a man saying he saw me in his sleep and intended to marry me act like a fuck boy a month later. i wish i wasn’t giving off an insane vibe but i am and men will lie to me because they want in temporarily. every guy thinks being the guy to get me into bed is like a conquest and they want the intensity part without the devotion part. i think the idea of permanent attachment scares the shit out of them but you don’t become one soul in two bodies casually or for a short time. they want to say they want monogamy but nothing is scarier than not getting to play their field. that’s the point when they then come back but it’s too late at that point. cos MY soulmate wouldn’t have done that and poof feelings gone. which is when they want to have feelings for me again unfortunately.

>>127095
agree with the lyrics so much like if i choose you, i choose YOU. plus storms are intense and sexy. wind whipping our hair around while we clutch at each others rain soaked clothes? and when the sun comes back out it’s because we weathered something and earned it and now we know nothing can part us? literally so much sexier to me than something that’s all sunshine. that’s real. that’s something that isn’t going to die after the honeymoon period. intensity lust and passion can actually last. you don’t have to marry golden retriever bsf vibes and act like that’s goals. i’d rather shoot myself in the skull than be some bangmaid to some guy who is more interested in gaming than emotional intensity.

>>127087
Why do you want to be owned? That's gross

>>127099
No it isn't, when two people love each other they belong to each other, there is no decrease of freedom from this, unless you intend to whore around. Nta btw.

>>127103
thank you that’s exactly how i meant it.

Nice poem

>>127113
thanks!!!

>>127087
This level of attachment surpassing destiny and soulmates is what I crave, but I’m afraid this requires time. I wish I could feel this way for someone upon locking eyes for the first time, but that’s psychotic. How do you bring yourself to get close with someone to the point of reaching soulmate stage? The sheer effort required for the journey paralyses me every time I think about it. How do you brave the storm nonas?

>>127087
Why do you wanna be a whore lol it's degrading

>>127116
sometimes it’s really bad and the universe is sending you a lesson when you feel that way when you lock eyes. especially after a chance encounter. i met someone in a way that was 100 percent destiny. it was not soulmate destiny. it was enemies destiny. but the chances of us meeting were impossible. we had been at the same school four years and never met. he was leaving the country when we met. the only other party in that group of friends i probably wouldn’t have been invited to, and if i had gone it would have given us two days to connect. no the literal only chance of us meeting was happening to go to a party i almost didn’t go to. we had people actively trying to keep us apart because my friend who brought me had feelings for me. it still exploded anyways. and that explosion was the worst thing that ever happened to me.

the problem remains with my original statement. men don’t know what to do anymore. they’re all so repulsive now. if that had been a normal man, it would have been the start of the love story we told our kids or we simply would have flirted been like oh well he’s leaving and moved on. men now are absolutely disgusting and cannot be trusted or believed in. the most they’re going to do for you is something for themselves.

>>127121
never said i wasn’t the worlds biggest whore. skill issue.

i’m actually so serious no we aren’t having sex on the third date. yeah i’ll play games with you but it can’t be our only hobby. no i don’t want to be an alcoholic who never leaves the apartment and is ignored by you the rest of the time. no i don’t want to spend all of our money on cheap plastic shit or thousands of dollars on cosplays. no i don’t want to go to fucking disney. no i don’t think any of this was for me. no i don’t think you choosing me because we have the same hobbies and now hotels and transport are all halved. no i don’t want to buy you nerd shit and have an ugly apartment. no i don’t want to date someone who works in factories and comes home and rolls around getting chemicals that are ruining our skin everywhere. no i don’t want someone with no goals or dreams. no i don’t think it’s romantic you think being into pop culture and having 1/3 types of acceptable normie hobby presets means we are soulmates. everyone has the same hobbies now. no i dont think it’s a coincidence we got engaged the second you turned thirty and realized there’s no field to play on, there’s only couples at parties now. yes everyone is laughing at you for waiting until now only to frantically settle down because your ex laughed about it being your last chance ever cos again, everyone else is paired off now. i think probably you should just end your lives if you live like that.

“you play video games? like every single woman i’ve ever dated did? but you don’t have a problem with me raping women and being five feet tall? even though you’re 5’6? and on god, you’ll drive me and pay to go to the ren fair i’ve been talking about since 2015 and was too lazy to drive myself? i’m gonna buy you a $40 silver ring from some polyamorous pedophile and propose to you in party city peter pan costumes. and if you say no? the relationship ends (: checkmate!”

>>127128
and NO james troy isn’t an experienced enough photographer to edit out your TRIPLE chin stop asking. humiliating you online because my ex said she would never allow it to prove that slut i raped wrong is most of this for me!!!

>>127128
The agony on her face at being publicly embarassed like this while he looks disgusted but desperate.

>>127128
I love the perfect ying and yang of the missing patch on his beard and on his hairline. Low T.

>>127128
my favorite thing is how you can tell this was on the patch of trees next to a fucking parking lot. not a forest. a couple trees with visible cars in view in public. of course this scrote would make sure to do it in a way she couldn’t say no.

>>127128
why are her breasts so tiny but pointing straight down, would they have gone further if she didn’t cinch them, does she not realize how unflattering having your waist and breasts at the same spot meet, and why the fuck can you tell that her breasts are folded in half? what is that fold? i’ve never seen a human being in my life with such saggy breasts she has a fold in them connecting to the saggy arm pit fold she also has.

>>127135
Oh my god she’s propping up one of her breasts with her sword the other one is dangling over her belt.

I still have a Virgin's idea of soul bonding sex lel

>>127145
that’s because it’s the truth. you are bound permanently to every person you have sex with.

>>127126
Cocksucker.

>>127198
hardly