Anonymous 127510
Hi nonas
I really need help
I really like this guy and he really likes me, we spend all of our time together to a downright obsessive degree, and ive never really experienced something like this because i was not very appealing to boys growing up. But now, Im having trouble going forward with him
He is still hung up kn a girl he dated a year and a half ago. Usually this would immediately turn one away from pursuing anything, but he is so tied to my hip that i dont doubt his affections for me. But he does say things that worry me, I fear I cant shape up to this girl that he had a really thrilling romance with, everytime he mentions her I feel like he misses her more and more. He mentions how nice she was to him, and how well they understood eachother, and it is so affectionate. I am so sad, these days, I cry a lot, but he also freaks out if he feels like I’m upset with him or just disappointed with him, I dont doubt he loves me, but i dont think he will ever love me as much as he loves this other girl. I am really autistic and i have troublr understanding other people on a degree like that. They havent spoken in a year but its still like this.
I feel so stupid and dumb and immature, i feel like a failure of a woman, im 22 and I’ve never had a boyfriend, so this is my first time experiencing soemthing like this. Am I desperate? what should I do?
Anonymous 127513
I'm not the one to say run away from any challenge but either this guy drops his ex or he drops you. if he really liked you he would forget about other romantic interest, at the very least you deserve it nona.
I'm not saying he's evil or he's not having a hard time, but this is the situation where you need to be selfish.
>but he also freaks out if he feels like I’m upset with him or just disappointed with him
as he should
Anonymous 127516
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personally i wouldn't take anyone who's still hung up on his ex ever so slightly
but GOD I hope something like this finds me without the ex part please please please please please please
Anonymous 127517
imagine him even mentioning his ex. at that point she’s as much a part of her life as you. you deserve better.
Anonymous 127527
He's gonna have to stop thinking about his ex if the relationship is going to work out
Anonymous 127531
catRidingElevator.…
Honestly if he feels like someone you want to try and go forward with just have a conversation with him about it. If he's not willing to move on with his ex then it's not worth it. If you have a friend more socially apt you can talk this through with that would help too. I think just asking him to move on would at least put your mind at ease because you tried everything you could.
Also regarding the feeling of love the way I felt when I met who I love it felt like I knew them for only a couple days and for over a decade at the same time. If what you feel is anything like that, this borderline ephemeral feeling, it's worth trying to make it work. Gl.
Anonymous 127536
>>127533A virgin bf that isn't a bitter incel would be so hot
Anonymous 127549
>>127536>virgin bf that isn't a bitter incelI don't think that is possible, see above kek.
Anonymous 127561
>>127549i would never want to be the girl someone loses their virginity to. my fiancé lost his by threatening to break up with his girlfriend. they broke up shortly after. he just wanted to have sex and said she was withholding it from him. thankfully she left him.
Anonymous 127610
>>127561>Yeah, I love used goods sluts Anonymous 127611
>>127561Wait, you're engaged to this asshole? Sounds like you may have some screws loosed.
