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I am so tired of the modern dating world Anonymous 127745

I really don't understand. I'm about to cry actually. I am trying my absolute best all the time, I am dating all the time, trying to talk to guys, I meet so many nice and sweet and interesting ones but they are never taking me out on any dates. I always initiate. Is it really that hard. Like I am actually very cute, 6'0, long hair, I take very good care of my looks, clothes, I have an apartment, job, I own property, my mental is semi ok, except I'm clingy, I have a very nice body. I have lots of hobbies and I am well read sort of, I don't spend time on social media. I have everything going for me and even that's not enough. I can't even get a movie date. All I want is to be taken to the movies and to be given some flowers. That's all I want. I think it happened once but only when I suggested to the guy to do that. Why do none of them want to do that with me? Are they really all that lazy and stupid? I have truly lost all hope in men, especially modern men, they have absolutely no idea how to treat people nice. Or maybe I'm too crazy. I hate men so much. I am literally like this against my own will. Female incel. Unlovable

Anonymous 127746

Sorry gurl they all want those petite girls to fulfill their pedo fantasy, try short men (ew), or be a girls girl

Anonymous 127747

>>127745
>6'0
Point out that if you have kids they'll be total chadlets. Men worship "Chad" more than anything.
>https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/how-tall-will-i-be
>For male children, add 5 inches (in) to the father’s height, add the mother’s height, then divide by 2.
>For female children, subtract 5 in from the father’s height, add the mother’s height, then divide by 2.
The one nice thing about being a tall girl - no matter who you get with your children are going to do pretty well in the height department.

Anonymous 127748

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You should communicate your cliche wants better. Also being tall for a woman isn't a plus. Also dating all the time makes you a slut.

Anonymous 127750

>Also being tall for a woman isn't a plus.
>I cry about being midget incel every second of my life but I refuse to date a woman with good height genetics
men are mentally disabled proof #24679

Anonymous 127751

>>127750
The world is a bit of a stage, atm. Such a pairing would get the minimoid clowned on by thousands from the second the first person decides to publish his photo online

Anonymous 127752

If men similarly are going through as many dates as they can it's reasonable they wouldn't as courteous and spend money every single time on random dates that probably won't stick

Anonymous 127753

>>127745
>Hundreds of millions of incels
>Not one of them is willing to be more than a friend to you
There is something wrong there and I don't think it is you.
Dating on the internet don't work, the sites want to keep everyone on the hook. I guess go to events? Show that you are open?

Anonymous 127754

>>127745
>Hundreds of millions of incels
>Not one of them is willing to be more than a friend to you
There is something wrong there and I don't think it is you.
Dating on the internet don't work, the sites want to keep everyone on the hook. I guess go to events? Show that you are open?

Anonymous 127755

>6'0
If I'm being honest this is the female equivalent of being like 5'5.

Anonymous 127756

>>127753
This is good advice, trying to find a partner on the internet is going to be a process of weeding through people whom you don't even like or don't like you. It's better to form relationships in person; you will know if you get along or not before trying to make it a romantic relationship

Anonymous 127757

>>127749
how are you saying this on a female only site the male mindset really got to you huh…

Anonymous 127758

>>127752
lol i never go on dates that ''wont stick'' i go on a few but i always pick only people i for sure like and would like to get to know better. is everyone retarded? is everyone stupid? why date if not to try to find a partner… i don't get this world at all

Anonymous 127759

>>127745
Stop simping so hard for one thing. Believe it or not this works, it turns things upside down. Believe it or not there is the female equivalent of a simp. I don't know you too well so I can't say for sure, but from how hard you try and put yourself out there (desperately,) it kinda sounds like it

Anonymous 127760

>>127746
>>127748
Nothing but bargain bin women on this board. I swear the reason you're all femcels is because you sound desperate or full of self loathing

Anonymous 127761

>>127758
I mean even if that was the purpose it can still not work out because of incompatibly or whatever, people don't have relationships with every date they have so it's not plausible to get everything from the get go, it probably depends on how long you've been seeing each other so I guess it is a problem if there no progress beyond that. Or that's my understanding, sorry dating isn't my first language

Anonymous 127762

>>127760
Those are men

Anonymous 127763

>>127762
Men as in men or men as in trannies?

Anonymous 127764

I went to the gym the other day and i tried to use a barbell after a girl and I asked if she was done and she said yes then I went to pick it up and she said im not done with it and I was like wtf?? And walked away and I was mad because some girls were laughing and I feel like everyone thought I was trying to hit on her and I felt embarrassed

Anonymous 127765

TALL WOMEN ARE BEAUTIFUL AND UNDERRATED
RAAAAAAH

Anonymous 127766


Anonymous 128357

Sad…

Anonymous 128385

Are those men shorter than you? They will tend to be insecure about it. Some exceptions.

Anonymous 128409

>>128385
I’m taller than my boyfriend and it makes me really insecure how often he has to talk about it not bothering me. I hate seeing pictures of his ex swimming in his t-shirts like they’re dresses and knowing his shirts would hug my belly. I’m a head taller than him and it’s super visible.

Anonymous 128429

>>128409
Why care what others think? You’re most likely never going to see others in public again, and friends who make fun of your aren’t really your friends at that point

Anonymous 128443

>>128429
It’s just really uncomfortable for us both physically. He likes the look of a girl in his t shirts with no pants on, gushes about his 4’11” ex looked like that. They’re crop tops on me. He can’t pick me up and he’s into that. I can’t sit on his lap. He can’t spoon me. I can tell both of us are dissatisfied physically.

Anonymous 128460

>>128443
Treading carefully in a reasonable response but I think he should learn to princess carry you

Anonymous 128471

>>128443
is it really that bad? i have a crush on a guy 4 inches shorter than me and this is my worst fear

Anonymous 128473

>>128471
it was BRUTAL in high school and college people my bff was 5’11 and she would get ghosted and have the boy she dated pretend he didn’t know her when his friends started taunting him about the height difference. idk how it is with adults. i will say she said the same thing about being even a little larger than the man sucked for cuddling and she wasn’t big enough he could be a good little spoon so it just sucked overall. she likes dating much taller men now.

Anonymous 128475

>>128473
>idk how it is with adults
Adults are just older highschoolers these days.

Anonymous 128498

>>128475
yeah in hs a lot less people would have cared over stuff that like. go into work with a shorter bf and every old lady is gonna mock him to your face once he leaves

Anonymous 128526

>>128498
Brutal



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