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Anonymous 12/22/25 (Mon) 08:21:02 AM127867

I recently stood up to a girl in my friend group who has been treating me like shit all year in private and doing petty mean girl stuff like kicking me out of our group chat, making plans with me and then canceling without explanation as to why, and also ignoring my texts when I asked if she'd be willing to be mature and talk things out in person instead of being passive aggressive to me all the time. It was at a party a mutual friend of ours was throwing and I basically texted her an essay there explaining how she's done me wrong all year and how I hope she learns some maturity for next year. Then, instead of addressing me personally, she ran out of the room crying, acting like a victim and everyone at the party basically turned on me saying that somehow I'm the one who was passive aggressive all along and now they're manipulated by her into thinking I'm the one who was an instigator. I fucking hate being Gen Z and I fucking hate being apart of this generation of crybullies.

Anonymous 12/22/25 (Mon) 08:35:01 AM127869

when did this start and why?

Anonymous 01/15/26 (Thu) 10:01:14 AM128344

>>127867
That would have happened in other generations as well, don't worry.

Other than that, find better friends. You don't want drama in your social life.

Anonymous 01/16/26 (Fri) 05:55:34 AM128353

>>127867
I’m going through something similar so I feel you. Don’t let the stupidity and immaturity of other people blind you from the truth. At the end of the day you did right by yourself and that’s something to be proud of.

Anonymous 01/17/26 (Sat) 04:50:05 AM128367

>>128353
Thank you anon… I feel a little less alone now knowing that I'm not the only one going through this this year…
Haha… on New Year's Day they even collectively kicked me out of all the group chats and I found chatlogs of them talking shit about me behind my back all of last year….
Let's just say that this has severely impacted my mental health. I nearly had to check myself into the mental hospital. Now I'm basically just turning myself into a shut-in. I watch anime on repeat and I sit and draw and I don't even leave my house anymore. Since I live in a small town, this group betraying me has left me very distrustful of people and now I don't want to be friends with anyone in my hometown anymore.

Anonymous 01/17/26 (Sat) 08:34:31 AM128368

>>128367
Do you live at home anon? Are there places you can meet people that aren't from your hometown.