/feels/ - Advice & Venting

>>127903
i dont really care, what is there to 'discuss'?

>have no interest in being sexual with any of my partners
That's called having friends.

Schizo thread.

you just need genuine friendships.
Don't fall for degenerate dynamics

>>127912
Wow, how strange of you to assume all this! Sorry, I'm not gonna give you your validation. Nobody cares whether youre straight in a monogamous or queer in a polyamorous relationship. Get a life.

Furthermore, you provided 0 information about this relationship besides it being polyamorous, so it's not like theres much to ask about anyway.

>>127903
I mean if they have money maybe it's okay..
Really what you should have is a roster and not need to commit to them or just get friends. Your body is valuable, don't give it away for free.

i don’t understand what opinion are you looking for? like, you seem fine, you want us to congratulate you or judge your asexual connections? there’s nothing to discuss here. enjoy it ig

>>127913
>>127914
This

>>127991
I don't get your lifestyle but I do find people who take personal offense to random threads like this amusing

Not inherently bad. People associate poly with lots of different things but to some it means not entertaining additional relationships besides 2 people you're dating or not dating someone who's seeing a different number of partners than you are. However it seems to overlap with a particularly uncomfy kind of "queer" person who has very poor sense of boundaries and often couches it in manipulative therapy language, or faux rad ~sexual liberation~, whatever else. Manipulation occurs in all kinds of relationships of course but there's a specific character about polyamorous manipulators that makes me uniquely uncomfortable.