Anonymous 128511
anyone else feel like no attatchment to their parents? they raised me pretty shittily and i just dont like their personalities so its hard to even want to have a relationship with them.havent really met anyone else like this am i just a rude asshole ungrateful daughter or ?
Anonymous 128512
>anyone else feel like no attatchment to their parents?
yeah, me. wouldn't really care if they died or something
I don't really know why, besides the fact that they weren't safe people for me. To be fair I felt more comfortable at my job than at home with them.
Anonymous 128513
My dad is an alcoholic who behaves like a child. I used to love him as a child, but I grew completely desolated from him. He's more like a roommate, actually.
Anonymous 128521
>>128513 He does that
a lot. It is very stressing to have someone like him living in my house. From time to time, the relationship seems to somehow get better, but once he drinks alcohol again, every progress goes down the drain
Anonymous 128534
yes. both of my parents had deep addictions. i separated and moved to a whole different town when i was 20 and haven’t spoken to them or any family since. the hardest part is when people try to probe into my past and ask questions regarding family, not because i’m sensitive about it or anything but because it usually elicits a “aww you poor retarded baby” response.
Anonymous 128554
Yes I had a really crazy upbringing and lived in a few different households with different family members. Very unstable. My mom left when I was a baby, then my stepmom disowned me recently. Really bizarre way to live.
There are benefits to being unattached. I am much more independent than my peers and have an easier time with rejection. Growing up this way definitely gave me some problems but I count my blessings.
