Anonymous 128535
Why does it feel so draining and unattractive when around negative people?
It's like you can absorb and feel those negative vibes. When they complain about their life to you or try to blame you for their life choices. You could be having the biggest high, but the moment you're around someone like that, you instantly feel worse by just being next to them.
Anonymous 128540
>>128535Well, you see, when you have everything handed to you on a silver platter, have good looks, and are spoiled by society, and you see someone that isn't who gives you a reality check, it's like going on withdrawals from drugs. Most people, especially women, hate negativity because all they've ever known in their life is people treating them positively. That's why women put positive quotes all around their house. If they don't have constant positive affirmations, it is physically painful to them because of how spoiled they are.
Anonymous 128541
> blame you for their life choices
how? did you recommend them crack cocaine?
Anonymous 128542
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i suspect in general people have not completed childhood and it manifests in people wanting attention, to be loved and to be carried because is what the broken child inside wants. the child wants to be made feel good and have liefe served to them on a silver plate, just a life of passive reception, ownership and interest rates. at times the child acts out to get attention, at other times seeks conflict. drama and busywork, just to avoid looking inside.
the adult knows this is impossible, looks inside without fear, cares for what is possible and self-makes the feeling good. might not work in the beginning but at some point the adults succeeds in feeling good and then becomes magnetic to all the children who want what the adult has, but of course served to them, without any of the work.
