/feels/ - Advice & Venting

go for it omg

definitely not a red flag but he might become annoying if that's his main interest

21 is still young, a year later he'll probably identify as something else. I would only be worried if he held such views while living in a formerly communist country.

>>128908
this is probably one of the most meaningless quotes ever

>>128911
Not as meaningless as your post.

>>128908
only lifelong conservatives say this quote

Conservatives are people who like hurting others and hoarding money.

>>128913
Nonsense. The thing is, you look at that quote and automatically put it in context of american two party system and contemporary politics.

>>128916 Because they’re an American. One is more inclined to perceive things from the context they are in rather than one they are not, its human nature. Though, I do agree that we need to a more fluid approach to politics, I think it’s truly fucking stupid to get on someone for speaking through their context. I wouldn’t expect someone from Europe to perceive politics through somewhere in bumfuck Africa and vice versa, same thing with Europeans and America, were separated from a sea, no one knows as much as they swear they do about American politics. Nothing at all. We have third parties, they are never voted in, but they make our politics function by being a buffer.

>>128917
Let correct myself: ocean

Communists are often losers. Arguably being deep into politics is a red flag no matter which direction the LARP goes.

>>128921
Would you call this chonker a "loser"? Literally millions of followers will cry their eyes out when he'll die.

>>128923
That's a monarch though:((

>>128925
Damn, then i got nothing.

>>128916
only selfish people say it in england too. nobody said america.

>>128935
You can barely speak english, how would you know.

>So im back from the date
had a great time and learned a lot about him
FYI I like asking about his prior gfs just to weed out red flags
>Pros
>He is kind
>He is attentive
>He is really smart
>he isn't condescending (most smart moids are unbearable)
>I really enjoyed our conversation
>Surprisingly he has a part-time job
>he paid for the date
>told me about his exes when I asked he has had 3 (the first he ended on bad terms, the other two ended on good terms but he maintains zero contact) I like that
CONS
>he confessed to me his prior relationships failed because he is always busy and had very few dates with his past gfs
>didn't talk about his family
>one of his exes (the most recent they broke up a year ago) studies at our same university (different career and department)
>he is part of "defunct" political party

Would it be crazy if I talked to his ex? just to see if his lying, I really like him but I don't want to get hurt.

>>128906
I thought so too but it isn't he has a lot of hobbies and passions he talked to me more about embroidery than communism but also I didn't ask him about that. But bottom line is it's not the only thing he talks about

>>128908
We are also part of an ex-socialist country (my university was founded by a socialists) but idk for us it kinda worked I don't really know the history about that, but I don't think his opinions will change they kinda go hand in hand with why he loves his career. He isn't one of those weirdos that glorify the USSR though


>pic related its from our date °~°

>>128939
It's ok to talk his ex. A bit weird though but tolerable, I guess. Just don't expect him to accept it if he discovers that. Would you be ok if he were stalking all of your profiles on Insta/FB/Whatsapp and talking to your exes, too?

>>128878
They're notorious for betraying their friends and family to conform to the new rhetoric, I personally experienced that.

>>129150
Can confirm, my sister has no loyalty towards her family that keeps supporting her throughout her life, just blindly defends people she has never met (at expense of those who are closer to her). As if to mechanically compensate for lacking natural human virtue, she clings to crude ideas of morality.

>>129157
Update
>talked to his ex
>she was nice to me (gave me a cupcake)
>Didn't tell her I knew him just poked around her life she surprisingly didn't mind and they basically broke up cause he is always doing something, if he is not studying for college or at college he is either at his job or doing charity work (he also helps out at a church, I found that kinda cute) she told me he was great as a partner when he was with her the main issue being most of the time he wasn't with her. She also told me he wasn't very close to anybody she told me he is surrounded by friends and people who like him but he doesn't have best friends or even close to his family. I mean she told me they are on good terms but not close, she found that odd and I do too
>>129150
>>129157
I kinda see what you mean nonas, I don't think he betrays people, he just stays outside of everyone's life's and offers them help when they need it, I guess that's honorable/selfless¿?

We went on a another date today, he is sweet but I noticed what his ex meant, he listened to me and we had a great chat but after being 5 hours together, he never talked about himself, the only thing I learned about him was his favorite ice cream,I need to ask who he is to get to know him
Bottom line is
>I don't like that at all it makes me feel as if he doesn't trust me, plus I do know myself well enough to accept I like attention from my partner, I would be miserable if I felt as if I was just a way to fill his freetime a hobby not a partner… so yeah I'm ghosting him but props to him, at least he is the most selfless person I've ever met… I guess…

no, political moids will always love their ideology moer than you.