>>129330Consider what a mother someone like this will be. Someone who posts on crystal dot cafe about feeling insecure that she's not small and little enough, what kind of woman does that? There are a number of failure modes here. One possibility among many, is to end up quietly resentful of her child for "ruining her body", or jealous of her child for being small and flat. Oh, resenting them for wasting her youth, also. If not one of those specifically, then just the general passing down of a value system driven by insecurity. Basically, if you're mentally ill, don't have children, because you'll fuck them over. By the way, don't forget the boyfriend in this. A guy who watches hentai is not fit to be a father either. He'll model his ideas about women to a son OR a daughter, in different ways. Don't inflict a father who is the type of guy that watches porn onto a child. Dating much less having kids with a guy is a suspect concept to begin with but if you're going to do it then do it right. This is the first guy you've dated, and you're having children with him? You're not even pretending that he's the rare and wonderful Nigel. You're totally settling for any guy who'll have you.
