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Moving on Anonymous 131495

How do i stop thinking about him, its been like 3 months now and the last thing he told me was to leave him alone. When he was distant and pulling away i kept getting closer and closer and it probably pushed him off and annoyed him. He said that he mentally checked out a long time ago and when he called me on the phone that we are over it felt like my whole world is going down, i was legit getting panic attacks at night and i lost my appetite and im too afraid to text him since i dont want to know if he blocked me. I just want him back. We were together for 8 months and around the 1-3 months it was good and it kind of drizzled down around 4-5 month were he has this hot and cold behaviour. For example 1-2 days he is warm and approaching and next 1-2 days he is cold and distant and this attitude alternates. Everytime he pulls away and acts cold and distant i kept asking him whats wrong and he kept responding that hes alright, hes okay and nothing is bothering him. Like how would i know there is an underlying issue if he conceals the problem by refusing to talk to me. Just the idea of him being with another girl and being intimate and having sex kills me in the inside. I just work it out and fix it. I need help. This hurts so much.

Anonymous 131496

he sounds like an immature manchild tbh. no normal person acts like everything is fine while it obviously isnt AND their partner is asking them whats up. he cant communicate and he wont learn, fuck this guy.

Anonymous 131498

he doesn't like you. you've got to find a way to move on.

Anonymous 131500

>>131496
He said it was hard for him to talk to me because apparently he already tried giving me the chance and he said it just went from one ear and out to the other (which i dont understand since im not a mind reader and he refuses to vocalize) and he just knew that it will go nowhere and lead to an argument which i dont understand at all because he didnt even wanna talk. Apparently it was hard for him to do so. Like how am i supposed to know there was an underlying issue when he actively conceals it and refuses to vocalize and he just bottles it up and explodes one day

Anonymous 131501

>>131498
How doesnt he like me? Did he just lost attraction out of no where? I do remember when our relationship was hanging by a thread he did mention that i wasnt the girl who he thought i was which made me very confused since i didnt change personas since the day i met him

Anonymous 131502

>>131500
girl…

Anonymous 131503

>>131502
I just miss him so much. Ive been spiralling the entire time and everytime i check his socials he looks fine. What messes me up even more is that he might be with a different girl and the idea of him being intimate with someone else kills me from the inside. I cant tell him to remember me but also i cant bear him to forget me

Anonymous 131504

>>131503
> everytime i check his socials
Stop

Anonymous 131505

what the fuck is to miss about him
he is too retarded to communicate, then he says he "tried giving you the chance" and then literally ignores everything you said to him because he cant be bothered to listen to you
>Like how am i supposed to know there was an underlying issue when he actively conceals it and refuses to vocalize and he just bottles it up and explodes one day
you are not supposed to read his mind, nona. he is supposed to be a functioning human and speak about his issues instead of bottling them until everything goes down the gutter.
you cant change him, he is immature, it would take years of therapy to make him barely functional, its not worth it.
>>131504
this. whats to gain there? you could find nothing there that would comfort you.

Anonymous 131512

>>131505
He said that it was hard for him to talk and he said he tried telling me but it just went from one ear to another and he didnt bother telling me because it would lead to an argument to will go no where. Im like how am i supposed to know if you didnt tell me. How would it go from one ear to another if you havent physically vocalized and communicate. He also said that he always felt alone when we were together meanwhile i put all of my attention to him.

Anonymous 131521

was this your first bf?

Anonymous 131522

>>131521
I had 2 "bfs" in high school but this was the first time i had something serious. Im 27 now

Anonymous 131523

>>131512
everything you posted so far is just another iteration of "he is a useless, non-talkative piece of shit who blames you for his communication problems". Like he didnt even talk to you and then said he was sure you wouldnt have listened anyways or that you would have started a fight? He cant even take accountability for his inablitity to speak normally to you. Fuck this guy.

Anonymous 131524

pathetic


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