/feels/ - Advice & Venting

Just do it with a partner you trust.
Personally I didn’t feel any different after losing it but then again my male isn’t a bad abusive person, and I really wanted to try it myself anyway.

virginity shouldn't even be a concept for women, it is only something to shame moids either for their lack of experience or overabundance of it, depending on the mood you're in

>>132405

I feel as it shouldn't be a concept at all, since now, in this age, it has become nothing but a word. A worthless term that has lost any meaning. But being in control of my sexuality also means wether I want to be sexually active or not. I simply want it to be a nice, comfortable memory instead of a regret.
I don't want to be vulnerable infront of a male that doesn't understand the amount of trust I'm giving him.

Well if you're not sure about the person you're with don't be intimate with them, kinda obvious

I guess young people are embarrassed about not having lots of sex, well porn work and cheap sex leads to poverty

>>132407
There is no guarantee, and there is never a guarantee that even the sweetest memory won't turn sour in case of a messy break up or something
Just, indeed, make sure you're on good two way terms with your partner - male or a woman, beware of red flags, love bombing especially, because it's those types who usually "dispose" of their partners afterwards

>>132401
Don't because you'll regret it

>>132401

Have dry sex, you basically rub with men until you both get wet from pleasure. No penetration, no pregnancy involved.

Do not take pills. It does not matter how many women take them, do not do it unless you are not in a safe enviroment or have a very very active sex life.

Condoms do not promise "no pregnancy" instead they should be used to prevent certain diseases and for pregnancy it can break, leak, and other kinds of awful things no one wishes for when using them. If you want sex? have dry sex. You are basically a virgin, since virginity is based on if a man has introduced himself inside you.

If you really really want sex, you are just ovulating or practically bery horny. Just tell the moid to pleasure you by dry sex. Keep your panties, he keeps his boxer, you do it dry and if he wets he has to change of clothes.

If what bothers you if he will discard you, discard him first. The first moment you feel you care for him too much, find other man that is more interesting than him in ways he will never pleasure you, in mind, in affection, in companionship, etc.

I hope you can be happy and healthy, xoxo, best wishes.

>>132401
Pretty much just regretted it, mostly because the relationship didn't work out and the guy I lost it to wasn't a virgin either. It leaves me bitter knowing I've shared something private with someone who I wasn't going to spend the rest of my life with. They'll likely forget about and associate this as one of his many attempts at finding love. I regret being a sensitive trusting faggot and letting my guard down. They weren't that bad of a person. I miss feeling more naive and optimistic about life. I hate the feeling of deja vu of attempting the same thing with someone else, it feels dirty. If none of this bothers you, go ahead.

>>132608
> It leaves me bitter knowing I've shared something private with someone who I wasn't going to spend the rest of my life with

You figured it out, no amount of shallow platitudes about ah it's just sex, have fun,
will ever tell what you know now.
I hope you can find your love soon thou, good luck nona.