lost best friend of 5 years Anonymous 133753
it's 6 months now since i lost my best friend. she didn't even wish me a happy birthday and was supposed to come up to see me, but cancelled last minute to prioritize a man over me. i still mourn the friendship. i dont understand why a man is more important to me when i was the one who covered for her constantly. everytime she cheated on her boyfriends, id tell them to their face she didnt do it and she was at mine. but as soon as i wanted her there for my 26th birthday she didn't come. its not like it was sudden either. we planned it for 1 year prior for when we both had money to splurge and go out.
why do all female friends leave me? they say they love me and then see boys? i dont understand. i was single for her. i dont understand.
this happened with my highschool best friend too.
im just venting… need advice on how to get over this.
Anonymous 133754
Stop blaming her for unrelated stuff and you will be able to move on, being single for her sounds like quite the excuse
Anonymous 133755
>>133753>why do untrustworthy people betray me? really?
Anonymous 133756
It's to be expected that people care more about their partners than they do their friends
Anonymous 133761
>>133755She's 26. People under 30 really don't understand the saying there is no honor among thieves.
How people treat others is very reflective of how they intend to treat you. The line doesn't just stop at the boyfriends. The selfish behavior continues with everyone else.
Anonymous 133765
>>133756Indeed. Those who get confused by this are to be avoided. A true friend doesn't get jealous or insecure over their friends finding love.
>>133761>People under 30 really don't understand the saying there is no honor among thievesYou got to be joking. Even little kids know that liars lie, cheaters cheat and thieves steal.
Anonymous 133777
>>133765> You got to be joking. Even little kids know that liars lie, cheaters cheat and thieves steal.Then why is society full of younger people who constantly support their shitty friends before being confused later as to why their shitty friends backstabbed them?
Anonymous 133782
>>133777Fear of becoming outcasts and lack of moral excellence. Shitty people keep shitty friends.
Anonymous 133787
>>133761>How people treat others is very reflective of how they intend to treat you. The line doesn't just stop at the boyfriends. The selfish behavior continues with everyone else.A lot of people use each other. It's not about gender.
Sorry about your female friend chasing men instead of wanting to hang out with you. It's their problem. There will be someone much better and you'll know it when you meet them.
Anonymous 133789
>>133761I agree. I had a very unpleasant moment where a friend of mine was married and still wanted to see erotic pics of my ex. Our friendship ended with me being betrayed and robbed for money, I blame myself for not seeing the signs earlier.
