>>19292>I've tried to dress more feminine several times but at this point it even feels like it's out of my element and comfort zone too much, just because I've been doing it for so longAre you familiar with the Kibbe archetypes? It may be that those hyperfeminine clothes like skirts and frills actually work against your features rather than for them. Your discomfort with it could be because when you dress in feminine clothes you see this incongruence and on a subconscious level you gravitate towards clothes that works better for you, which explains why you might feel more comfortable dressing “plain”. I myself love the Gamine archetype, it’s basically the fashion sense I try and embody myself. Lots of “plain” clothes, but still colorful and quirky without being flamboyant or excessively feminine, it’s a very “unisex” style imo.
>do you have a large chestNo, actually. That’s the funny thing I’ve actually always had a flat chest (barely a B cup). Growing up I was afraid I’d end up with a bigger chest cause my mom has like D cups but I never got that and looking at older photos my mom was also pretty flat-chested herself and only got a bigger chest after her first pregnancy